Tag: Focus

How To Change Any Circumstance In Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Whatever you want to change in your life, you can change it. In the words of Tom Oliver,

‘Whatever you want to change, whatever event you want to create, whatever goals you want to accomplish, you have to develop a healthy disregard for whatever exists in your life that you do not want to be there. You simply have to choose not to focus on those things.

… To change any problem or circumstance in your life and create a new reality, you have to shift your focus away from whatever you want to change, from the undesired state to what it is that you want to create.’

Take your time. Change takes time. Do not rush yourself through it. If you want it to last, you must take your time to do it. Above all, you must know why you are doing it. Know why you are putting yourself through it.

How To Build The Life You Want, According To Dr. Grace Lordan

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘By thinking in terms of the activities that you really want to be doing, you can identify the small steps you need to take to realize ME+.’

‘You will progress faster if you meet people outside your normal circles.’

‘It is essential to make your progress salient by auditing the activities you are doing and the milestones you are reaching’

‘To begin creating your own carrots and sticks, ask yourself this one question: ‘How can I lower the immediate costs and increase the immediate benefits of the small steps I need to take?’

‘It is okay to quit if there is an intention to do something much more worthwhile.’

‘It is important that you judge your progress by the quality of your decision-making, as opposed to the quality of your outcomes.’

‘One of the easiest ways to grow quickly is to get feedback from people with diverse backgrounds and life experiences.’

‘We don’t ask for help often enough, even when we really need it.’

‘It is your responsibility to seek feedback regularly and with a specific agenda.’

‘Thinking big and designing a plan to get there is something that you get to do rather than have to do.’

‘You will draw less on your own resilience reserves if you focus on your absolute progress, and avoid comparisons with others.’