Tag: Energy

The Choice Is Always Yours

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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The choice is always yours. No one can change your life for you. No matter what you are going through in your life, you can change it.

But it starts with a choice. Do not limit yourself. You are better than you think. When you are faced with issues, do not focus your time and energy on what you are going through. Instead of doing that, why not focus on your time and energy on how you are going to make things better?

‘Struggle … is our reaction, our resistance, our anger towards and our inability to deal with the pain when it happens.’- Gerry Hussey

Things will always happen. You can’t stop things from happening to you. That is life. Remember, according to Gerry, ‘You can learn that you always have a choice, and that the choice you have is not whether pain appears in your life or not, but how you choose to respond to it.’

Your life is not about what you are going through in your life. It is about what you are becoming. It is about what you are learning from what you are going through in your life.

Love Yourself The Way You Want To Be Loved

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘The ultimate expression of love is loving another in the way they want to be loved.’- Gary John Bishop

Is life without love even possible? Living a life without love is like driving a car without gas. That is not possible. It is not possible because love is energy. Love is life.

Where there is no love, there can be no life, no movement, and no growth. Love is important. It is the reason we are here. And if you want to give it to other people, you must first give it to yourself. You must first love yourself the way you want to be loved.

Do not be scared. It is not a bad thing to love yourself first. If you think it is bad to love yourself first, then think about this question: ‘Can you give out what you do not have?’ Is it possible?

If you are true to yourself, the answer is no. And that is why you shouldn’t wait for others to love you. If you have the courage to love yourself the way you want to be loved, I think that is good enough. According to Gary John Bishop, ‘When someone say they don’t love you, it doesn’t have anything to do with you.’ It has everything to do with them. Why? Because you can’t give out what you do not have.