Recruitthebest Daily Digest- If You Don’t Like Your Reality

Do not pretend to be who you are not. If you don’t like what is happening in your life, take a look at your reality.

Because you get what you pay attention to. ‘Living systems change to preserve themselves.’

The first act of life is to create a boundary, a membrane that is the cell’s identity. It defines an inside and an outside, what it it, what it is not.’

Life cannot be sustained when the boundary is too rigid. Nor can it generate new capacities and adapt to its environment if the boundary is too open.’

Without identity there is no life, no creation, no responsibilities, no continuation, no possibility for evolutionary change. Yet every change is motivated by an attempt to change, to preserve a self.’

‘Embody your faith. Don’t talk about it, walk it. People will notice and respond.’

Conversation is the technology. Curiosity, vulnerability, mutual respect give it power.’

Curiosity leads to adaptive responses.’

Source:

Margaret J. Wheatley (2023). Who Do We Choose To Be? Facing Reality. Claiming Leadership. Restoring Sanity

If You Want To Be Successful, Learn From These People

They live their lives. They don’t really worry about what other people are saying about them.

They are not interested in what is not making them better.

They don’t waste their time. They know what they want.

They know what they can do. They know what they cannot do.

They know how to get what they want. They never stop learning.

They are super curious. They are not scared to make mistakes.

They love making lots of mistakes. They know where they are going.

When you are with these people, they want you to grow. They challenge you.

When you are with these people, you don’t want to leave them.

Because you are just in the right place, with the right people, learning from them.

Who are these people? They are successful people.