Tag: courage

What About Your Quiet Master?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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The things we can’t see are more powerful than the ones we can see. Your self-doubt is one of them. Can you see your self-doubt? It is there, but you can’t see it.

It is always working behind the scenes. If you do not do something about it, you are in trouble. Why is that? Because you will never believe in yourself, the things you do, the people you deal with, how you think, what you think about, how you act, and what you respond to.

Self-doubt is very powerful. If you want to win in your life, you must take charge of your life. If you do not have the courage to do it, then self-doubt will do it for you.

When you doubt yourself, who you are, what you can do, you are not in charge of your life. You are not in control of your life, self-doubt is.

When you doubt yourself, you do not believe in yourself. You are always second-guessing yourself, what you can do, who you are.

You can set yourself free. You can start by taking intentional actions.

When you are faced with something bigger than you, do not go back, face it. Do not doubt yourself. Do not be scared to show other people who you really are. Do not hide yourself.

Be proud of who you are. Stand for something. Remember, if you do not stand for something, you stand for nothing.

It is better to stand for something than to stand for nothing.

You can face your self-doubt. Trust yourself. Get out of your comfort zone. Do not be scared to interact with new people. When you are with new people, you are building your self-confidence muscles.

It challenges you to get uncomfortable with yourself. That is how we grow. We grow when we are uncomfortable. We don’t grow when we are too comfortable.

It is not going to be easy,but you can do it. All you need to do is to get started. Do not worry about what people are going to say. Why? Because people will always talk. People will always say something. Do not make that your business.

When that happens, do not take it personally. It is not about you. It is about them.

If you want to be successful in your life, you must take care of your self-doubt. If you don’t, self-doubt will take care of you.

Do You Know Who Is Responsible For Your Failure?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘You are the only person accountable for your success or failure.’– Dave Gordon

If you want to know who you are, you must stop blaming other people.

When you blame, you fall. When you blame others for your failure, you fail. Because you will never know who you really are. And you will never know why you are not getting what you are supposed to be getting.

Success does not come from blaming others for our mistakes. Success comes from taking responsibility for our mistakes.

Because we are responsible for our lives. Because you are responsible for your success and your failure.

When you fail, learn from it. When you fail at something, do not blame others.

We fail when we blame others. We succeed when we do what we are supposed to do.

If you are NOT doing what you are supposed to be doing, you will never achieve what you want to achieve.

To achieve what you want, to make your dreams happen, you must do things right.

To do the right things, you must first get things right.

So if you want to be successful, you must define your own life. You must define what you want for yourself. And you must not follow other people’s dreams.

You are not going to make anything happen if you do not have the courage to follow your own dreams.

It is hard, but you can do it.