If You Cannot Be Good To All, Be Good To Yourself

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Choose to be good to yourself. Whatever you do, love it. Wherever you are, be there. You are here on earth for a purpose. Your job is go after that purpose. Your job is not to close your eyes, but to open them to opportunities. As the saying goes, “Opportunities are everywhere.” It is true, but if you don’t open your eyes, you can’t see anything.

It is not what you look at that matters. It is what you see that matters. To see yourself, you must be closer to yourself. You must appreciate your life. You are not here to occupy people’s spaces, but to occupy your own space. Your space is your space. It belongs to you.

You are who you are. Don’t change anything about yourself. Love everything about yourself. If you are a small person, celebrate it. If you are a short person, appreciate it. If you are not too smart, there is a reason for it. If you are not rich, celebrate what you have. Enjoy what you have, and more will come to you.

Again, as the saying goes, “If you celebrate what you have, you will have more to celebrate.” No matter what, my friend, always celebrate your life. Because if you don’t celebrate what you already have, you will have little to celebrate in the future. Be grateful for your life. If you cannot be good to everybody, be really good to yourself. Can you?

Stop Proving Yourself To People Who Will Never Love You

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If you want your life to make sense to you, you must stop proving yourself to people who will never love you. You are not here on earth to prove yourself to anyone, but yourself. You must learn to be comfortable with yourself. If you are comfortable with yourself, then you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone.

You have nothing to show to anyone. You are who you are. You are not comparing your accomplishments to the accomplishments of other people. You are comfortable with yourself. Don’t look down on yourself. You are good enough. You are a unique human being. You should celebrate your uniqueness, not abuse it.

If you are around people who don’t know your worth, you don’t have to prove yourself to them. Let them know who you are, what you stand for, and what matters to you. Don’t worry about them. Worry about you and where you are going. That is good enough.

They don’t have to like what you are doing. But if you like what you are doing, that is what matters. Learn to be comfortable with people who don’t know you. If you are comfortable with them, judgement will disappear. Whether they know you or not, you have nothing to prove to anyone. Do you?