As James Allen once said, “A man can attract that to him which is in harmony with his nature.” We are what we attract. We don’t attract anything that is not in harmony with our thoughts. If you want to feel good about something, or you are praying for something, fill your mind with the right thoughts. You get what you think about. If you think about negative things, you will attract negative things into your life.
You can control your thoughts. If you don’t like what you are thinking about, you can always change it. According to James Allen, ” You are the thinker of your thoughts, and as such you are the maker of self and condition.” Yes, we are the thinkers of our thoughts. We are the makers of our lives. If you don’t like your thoughts, change them. You are always going to be attracting that which you think about all the time.
If you want to change anything in your life, you must first work on your thoughts. You may change your home address, you may change your school, you may change your friends, you may change your car, but wherever you go, you will attract the same thing into your life. It is not about your situation, it is not about your condition, it is not about your circumstances; it is about your thoughts. If you want to get different results, change your thoughts. If you want your circumstances to change, you must change your thoughts. Until you change your thoughts, your life will never change.
To begin, ask yourself, “What do I really stand for?” It is important to know what you stand for. For as long as we are here on earth, we must stand for something. But why is it difficult for people to stand for something? Why are so many people standing for everything? Remember, if you stand for everything, you are standing for nothing. Pick something that is important to you and fight for it. If treating people fairly and equally is important to you, stand for it. If helping people is important to you, stand for it.
It doesn’t matter what you stand for, but stand for something. Don’t let fear stop you from standing for something. People don’t stand for something because they want to fit in, they want people to like them. Don’t worry about other people. You are powerful enough to live your life on your own terms. Your life is not about them, but about you. So live your life for you, not for them. If you live your life based on other people’s opinions, you will never grow.
To live your life, you must NOT be afraid to be your real self. Don’t try to fit in, try to fit out. Do your own thing. Follow your own heart. Listen to yourself. Don’t let people change your destiny. Don’t be afraid to pursue your destiny. Don’t be afraid to be diferent. And to bring about change in your life, to bring about change in the world, in your communitiy, in yourself, you must not be afraid to do things differently.