Tag: Blaming

What It Takes To Make It In Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Life is not about doing nothing. Life is about doing something, not about doing everything.

Life is not about wasting time, your time. That is why you should NEVER waste your time.

Don’t waste your time with people who are just going through life. That is not what life is about.

Life is time. If you are NOT doing something that is getting you closer to your dreams, if you are not chasing customers, if you are not creating a culture where your people are free to mess up, if you fail, do not blame it on anybody.

Because no one is responsible for your life. You are.

If you want to win, you must follow those who are getting things done. If you do not know how to reach them, you can ask for help.

Remember, according to Dave Kerpen, ‘Every minute you spend with someone who isn’t going to help you get what you want is a minute spent away from someone who may help you get what you want.’

That is what successful don’t do. They don’t waste their time with people who are not going to help them get what they want. You can do the same.

If you really want to get to your next level, you have got to stay away from people who are not going to help you get what you want.

Remember, to be successful, it is about three things: what you know, who you know, and what they are willing to do for you.

The question is, Are you spending your time with the right people?

3 Things To Do When You Fail

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Who is perfect? Are you? If no one is perfect, then we can’t avoid mistakes. We can’t avoid failures.

Failures are lessons. They are not roadblocks. If you pay attention to what you are doing, why you are not getting it right, you can learn a lot from failure.

‘Don’t play the blame-and-shame game- just prove your critics wrong.’

George Beahm

Do not let failure stop you from doing what you love to do. To move forward, you must take risks.

You must, according to George Beahm, ‘Reinvent yourself.’ If what you are doing is not working, do not stop there. Do not stop there. Find something else and do it. Do not stop living your life. Do not limit yourself to just one thing. No, you can do a lot more than you think you can do. Why not give it a shot?

‘Learn from your mistakes, and constantly work to improve your life.’

George Beahm

When you fail at something, it does not matter what it is, according to George Beahm, ‘Don’t play the blame-and-shame game- just prove your critics wrong.’ You do that by working harder than you have ever done in the past. Do not do it to shame others. Do it to improve yourself. Because you are responsible for your life. You are responsible for your failures. When you fail, instead of blaming other people, take full responsibility for your life.

And when you fail, all you need to do is to step up your game. Do what George says. ‘Do great work.’ When you ‘do great work’, great things will come to you. And you will ‘start living’ your real life.

Why not now?