Tag: Blaming

How To Reset Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

If you don’t like what is going on in your life, it is your responsibility to look within you. Do not blame it on others. Do not blame it on your family people. Yes, where we are can affect how we do things in life.

But we are responsible for what we do, what we think, and how we feel.

If you do not like your life, reset it.

If you do not like your work, reset it.

If you do not like where your life is going, reset it.

Because life is about starting again. To start again is to hit the reset button. To hit the reset button is to wake up.

Reset means doing something again. Trying something again.

Stuck means staying where you are. Not trying anything at all. Not growing at all. Just doing the same thing every day.

To hit your own reset button, don’t live in your past. Because ‘the past cannot tell you who you are, but it can give you clues about which future will provide you with the most freedom to be entirely yourself.’

When you hit your own reset button, you can learn from your past, but do not stay there.

Share your passion with people who can help you. Do not share your dreams with dream killers. And be willing to learn from your supporters.

Because ‘when you share passion, play together, and are vulnerable in your conversations, you you get to know each other in a way that isn’t otherwise possible. You build bonds of trust, and you want to do more together because it makes you feel more alive. … together, you can take more risks that wouldn’t be possible alone, because you each bring your best to the process.’

Do not waste your time. Remember, you are starting again. You are restarting your life, your success engine. Be with people who are pursuing what you are going after.

‘When you make genuine connections with like-minded people, those connections often develop into honest, authentic relationships, and magic can happen.’

The question is, ‘Are you making the right connections with the right people?’ If you are, keep on keeping on!

Source:

Gezim Gashi (2021). Unlocked: the power of YOU

Do Not Limit Yourself. You Can Do More Than You Think

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

You are limitless. If you want more, you can do more. If you can do more, you can get more.

It depends on what you want to accomplish for yourself. Success depends on what you want. ‘The goal you decide to tackle does not necessarily have to be world changing. It can be as big or small, as easy or complicated, as you like. The key is that it must be meaningful to you.‘

You are more likely to do well in your life when you do what you love, not what you hate. Because ‘deep down inside, we know that we are limitless. But our brains and the world around us confine us so we remain smaller than we should be.’

You don’t have to accept that. You can change your direction. What you want in your life is different from what the world wants you to have. Don’t believe it. They are lies. If you want to be different, you must do what others don’t want to do.

Success comes from doing what you love. Failure comes from blaming other people for your life. Do not do that. When you blame other people for your past, what is happening in your life, what will happen in the future, you are limiting your power, the power to be you, the real you.

Remember that ‘every experience you’ve had up until this point in your life, including those that have been the most difficult, is an asset when you choose to learn from it.’

That is life. What life gives to you, take it. Do something good with it. Do not blame people for your life. Take responsibility for your life. Taking responsibility for your life is a strength, not a weakness. According to Hal Elrod, ‘It is your responsibility to make the changes necessary to go to next level.’

Your next level. It is right in front of you. If you want to catch it right now, you have got to expand your comfort zone. ‘As you expand your comfort zone, you also expand what’s possible for you.’

And to get out of your comfort zone, you must focus on what you are doing, not where you are going. When you focus on what you are doing, you will know what not to do. You will know what to avoid. It will allow you to really focus on what you are doing, not on what you are going to get.

Remember, according to Hal Elrod, ‘every result is preceded by a process and the key to consistent goal achievement is to stay committed to your process without being emotionally attached to your results.’

Will you do that for YOU? Will you stay committed to your goal?

Source:

Hal Elrod (2019). The Miracle Equation: The Two Decisions That Move Your Biggest Goals from Possible, to Possible, to Inevitable