Why You Can’t Attract Great People Into Your Life

People are people. They want what you want. They are not going to live with what you can’t live with.

People are attracted to greatness. They are attracted to love. They are attracted to happiness. And they are attracted to growth.

People don’t want to hang around stagnation. They don’t want to have anything to do with fear, with self-doubt, and anger.

If you want people to come to you, if you want to bring the best into your life, you must act like you are, not as you are not.

Do not fake who you are. Be real. Know what you want in life, what you are going to do to get it, and what you are not going to do to get it, no matter what.

People are comfortable with people who treat them well, who listen to them. So if you want people to come to you, you must learn how to be a good listener, not a great talker.

Why is that? Because we want to feel that we are important. If no one is listening, people stop talking.

And if you want to attract other people to you, you must acknowledge the fact that your way of doing things is not the only way. People have their ways of doing things.

People won’t give you there best if your way is the only way of getting things done. You will get a lot done through others when you treat them well. The question is, ‘What are you doing to attract the best into your life?’

When You Act Like Yourself

What does it really mean to act like others? What does it really mean to act like yourself?

We are different. We are not the same. And we want to achieve different things in life.

So if you are not acting like yourself, it means you are just following the crowd. You are not working for yourself. You are working for others. You are developing others, not yourself.

To REALLY act like yourself is to love yourself. When you act like yourself, you are telling the world that you are good enough, that you are here to make a difference, that you are not here to please people, that you know what you want to achieve for yourself, that you are living for yourself, that you are not going to give up on yourself, and that you are enough.

On the other hand, when you act like other people, you are telling the world that you are not good enough, that you do not have what it takes to live your life, that you need other people to tell you what to do, where to go, and how to get there.

When you act like others, you are telling the world that you don’t have what it takes to live a bettter life, that you are not good enough to make your own decisions.

Do not let that be you. Because if you want to live a better life, if you are really serious about making a different in the world, you must act like yourself.

Don’t copy. Don’t imitate. Just be you. If not, you are nothing.