Why People Follow You

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People follow you because they want to follow you. They like you. They like what you stand for. And they believe in you. They believe in your leadership.

They know that leadership is not about you. It is about what you stand for. They know that leadership is about where you are going.

Leadership is about people. It is about who you are. It is also about how you treat other people. Leadership is not about what you have. It is about what you do for other people.

People follow you because of what you are doing for other people. If you are not doing anything to make a difference, then you are serving yourself.

According to Tim Irwin, ‘Inspiring others to give themselves unreservedly to the mission is not a management technique. Effective leadership is far more personal.’ He is right. If people don’t believe in your mission, if they don’t trust you, they won’t follow.

If you want people to follow you, give them the following things:

Give them your trust. When you say you want to do something, make sure you do it.

Treat them as they would like to be treated. Make them special. Lift them up. Give them something to believe in.

Show them the way. Create a place where they are free to make mistakes, where they are free to learn.

Above all, make sure they know where they are going. Tell them why you are going there.

If you don’t know something, admit it. Let them know that you don’t know everything.

Whenever they need you, be there for them. If you work for them, they will work for you. Because leadership is about serving other people. The question is, are you serving your people?

How To Be True To Yourself

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Life is full of opportunities. If you want to get some, you must be true to yourself. You must be comfortable with who you are.

If you do not have the courage to be you, to follow you, to wake up, to stop sleeping, then you are not helping yourself.

You are not helping yourself. You are cheating yourself. You are stealing from your future. You are not watering your plants. You are starving yourself.

And you will find it really difficult to connect with your inner self, your peaceful world.

That is a problem. And people will figure it out that you are not real, that you are not telling them the truth.

To show the world who you really are, to connect with yourself, you must open your heart and let other people see the real you. Do not hide yourself. Do not deceive yourself.

If you want to build trust, be proud of who you are, what you are doing, and how you are doing it. Because you are doing your own thing. And you are doing it in your own way. That is good enough.

It is good enough for you. It is good enough for your life. And it is good enough for those who are for you.

Peace comes from enough. When you are enough for yourself, you don’t have anything to worry about. You are okay the way you are. You are happy with yourself.

Whether you have or not, you are happy with who you are. That is what people want to see. People are interested in who you are, not what you have.

Remember, people follow other people who are true to themselves. If you want people to follow you, to do anything for you, you MUST be true to yourself.