The Benefits Of Defining Yourself

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You are the only person who can define you. Do not allow people to define you. If you allow that to happen, they will give you the wrong picture of yourself.

One of the opportunities of your life is to be able to define your real self. Tell people who you are. Do not allow people to tell you who you are. They will tell you the wrong things about yourself.

Joseph Campbell said, “The privilege of a life time is being who you are.” You cannot know who you really are, if you do not define yourself in your own terms.

Sometimes we allow others to define us because we want them to like us. But we are not really helping ourselves by doing that. The great Aristotle said, “Know thyself.” If you want to live a positive, happier, healthier, and a successful life, you MUST know yourself.

You will never know yourself if you allow people who do not even know you to define you. They do not know you. They do not know what you stand for. They do not know where you are going. They know nothing about you. Because of that, do not let their opinions affect you. Their opinions have nothing to do with you. Just focus on what is important to you and the people around you.

Define yourself.

Are you ready to define yourself?

Why Is A Positive Self-Worth Considered Good?

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A positive self-worth is attractive. It brings out the best in you. It brings other positive people closer to you.

Your self-worth is your life-worth. It is a ticket to freedom and prosperity. You cannot earn more than you worth. You are the only one who can raise your self-worth.

“Your Self-worth is your life-worth.”

You can raise your self-worth by accepting who you really are. Do not compare yourself to other people. Compare yourself to yourself. Focus on what you are doing right, not on what you are doing wrong. Life is a process. We are always growing. We will never stop growing.

It is okay to make mistakes. If you make one or two, do not beat yourself up, accept it, learn from it, and move on. Do not allow people to define you by your mistakes. They do not have the right to define you. You have the right to define yourself. Yes, ONLY you have the right to define yourself. Make sure you define yourself in a positive way.

Your name is positive. Your life is positive. Your life is your life. So take care of it.

Always use positive words to describe yourself. “You are smart. You are beautiful. You are tall. You are happy. You are healthy.” NEVER tell yourself negative things. If you do, your brain will register them as real. What you tell yourself will happen in your life. Be careful what you wish for.

If you wish for good things, you will get good things. If you wish for bad things, you will get bad things.

If you do not take anything away from this article, take this:

“When your self-worth goes up, your net worth goes up with it.”– Mark Victor Hansen