‘… allowing a space before we react predictably is magical. …
It’s what allows for making friends with myself,
what allows for clear seeing and a change of direction.
Without this mindful gap, without refraining,
we just stay stuck in old patterns, wondering,
yet again, ‘How did I get into this mess?”- Pema Chodron, How We Live Is How We Die
You are not stuck. According Kathy Caprino, ‘You’re only stuck if you let yourself be stuck.’ If you are feeling stuck, if you are not getting things done, if you are not where you are supposed to be, then try something different.
Stop doing the same thing. Stop meeting the same people. If you keep doing the same thing, your life is not going to change.
In Kathy’s words, ‘If you keep doing the same thing over and over, you’ll struggle to bring about positive change.’
To unstuck yourself, according to Tom Oliver, ‘The only way to transform your self-image, transform your life, and transform your success in business is to bombard yourself with a never-ending stream of positive suggestions, imagery, praise, visions, desires, goals, and successes.’
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