Tag: Success

How To Transform Your Self-Image

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

‘The only way to transform your self-image, transform your life, and transform your success in business is to bombard yourself with a never-ending stream of positive suggestions, imagery, praise, visions, desires, goals, and successes.’– Tom Oliver

Positive suggestions will work only if you believe in yourself. It is not enough to just say them. If you want them to work, you must believe them.

It is not something that you can’t change. You can change it. Use whatever works for you to change how you see yourself.

See yourself as a great person. When it comes to success, how you see yourself matters. If you think you are not good enough, you won’t have the courage to live your dreams.

If you believe in your life, then don’t put yourself down. See yourself a doer, not as a follower. According to Tom, ‘Remind yourself that you can grow into this ideal future as easily as you grew from the past into the present.’ Don’t give up before you try!

Why You Should ‘Walk Through’ Your Doubts

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

If you want to get to the other side, you must develop the courage to ‘walk through’ your doubts.

In the words of Tom Oliver, ‘If you have self-doubts, you can’t deny them; that won’t work. It will only impede your energy. Instead, objectify them. This will enable you to live through the unpleasant feelings without denying them or giving them more room than they deserve.’

You can handle your doubts. They are there. To set yourself free, don’t try to pretend that they are not there. If you do that, they will never leave you alone.

Self-doubts are there. And they always will be there. If you want to chase your dreams, don’t dismiss them. Because they are not going anywhere.

‘Remind yourself that some of life’s greatest breakthroughs happen precisely after the moments of deepest doubt, despair, or depression- you have to walk through the valley of the shadow of doubt to get to the other side.’

It is okay to doubt yourself, especially when you are in a place that is new to you. But do not let it stop you from living your dreams.

Instead of giving up on yourself, why not ‘walk through’ your self-doubts?