Tag: Problems

What To Do When You Don’t Know How To Move Past Where You Are

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Photo by Kelly Lacy

Don’t stuck yourself. Don’t let the fear of the unknown stop you from living your life. You are stronger than your fears. Don’t focus on your fears. All you need to do is to focus on why you are here on earth. If you know why you are here, if you know your purpose in life, if you know what you want to achieve in your own life, nothing can stop you from achieving it.

“If you cannot do great things, do small things in a great way.”- Napoleon Hill

Success requires courage, faith, hope, work, and action. If you know what you want, then take action to unstuck yourself. It is good to dream. It is okay to write your dreams on paper. It is okay to talk about your dreams. But nothing will happen unless you take the right action. It is only action that can change your life. It is only action that can unstuck you from your comfort zone. Action matters. It is only action that can get you to where you want to be. Without action, a dream is just another dream on paper.

“Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.”- Neale Donald Walsh

But you can change things. You can change your life. You may have tried before and it didn’t work. That was in your past. But you are no longer living in your past. You are living in the present, in the moment, in the now. Everything is happening right now, right where you are. Don’t miss it. Don’t wait for the right time to take action. If you know what you want to do, just do it. And the best way to unstuck yourself is to do what you know how to do. Do what you know, forget about what you don’t know. Don’t overthink things.

“If you want to be free, you must face your fears. If you want to be free, you must believe in yourself.”

Overthinking makes things worse, not better. Make things simple, but not simpler. And the right time to do it is now. Napoleon Hill said, “Don’t wait. The time will never be just right.” Do it now! Don’t let fear stop you from doing what is right for you. Remember that fear is subdued by action. If you take action, your fears will disappear. But if you don’t, they will hang around your neck forever. They will never leave. When you face your fears, you kill them. When you face your problems, they will lose their hold upon your life. If you want to be free, you must face your fears.

No One Can Help You If You Are Not Ready To Help Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Photo by Ketut Subiyanto

It is about your own attitude. You have what it takes to change yourself, your life. You have the power to change yourself. No one can help you if you are not ready to help yourself. No one can push you to do what you don’t want to do. No one can tell you to change your life. It depends on what you want to achieve in your life.

“No man is ever created without the inherent power in himself to help himself.”- Charles F. Haanel

If you want to achieve greatness in your life, you have the power to change your life. You were created to defend yourself. You were not created to depend on people to help you solve your problems. They don’t even know your problems. If they don’t know what you are going through, how can they help you solve it? They can’t.

If you want to grow, change is necessary. It is important. It is what you need to get to the next level. If you hate change, you won’t grow. Change is difficult, but doable. Change requires awareness. For any change to be effective, for any change to give you what you want, you must know why you want to change. If you don’t know why you want to change, if you don’t know what you want to change, how can you change yourself?

“Change starts with you.”

You don’t have the power to change yesterday, but you have the power to change today. And if you want to change your future, start today. Because your future is happening right now. What you are doing right now is creating your future. If you want your future to be better than today, you must stay in the game. Because life is a game.