Tag: Personal Growth

Self-Love…Why You Need It

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Workplace Learning Report
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If you haven’t done it before, give yourself a rose- right now! GIVE YOURSELF A ROSE!

You cannot love other people without starting with yourself. Love yourself before you can love other people. YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED! One way to love yourself is to never, never, never compare yourself to other people. You have your life to live. They have theirs. For example, if you say you love yourself so much, your actions and your lifestyle should back it up.

Give yourself a rose. This rose!

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If you want to be really happy, you must love yourself. You must respect yourself. You must accept yourself. You must live with yourself. It does not matter how you look- short or tall, educated or not, rich or poor, fat or slim. You must love and celebrate yourself. There is no one like you. You are a unique human being.

Everything about you is uniquely yours. You cannot find it anywhere, because you are unique.

“Everything about you is uniquely yours.”

When you love yourself, it means you are comfortable with yourself. It means you are living your own life. It means you are not trying to be like other people. Don’t even think about it! It has never worked before, and it will not work for you. For example, don’t be like other people who say, they ‘love themselves,’ but aren’t happy with who they are.

If you have the gut to love yourself, others will love you. Self-love is good for you, and it is also good for the people around you. It is contagious. It is infectious. They will feel it. They will live it. They will celebrate it. Give yourself a rose- right now!

Why You Should Build Your Own Dream

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development
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A purposeful life is a meaningful life. One of the reasons we are here on earth is to live a purposeful life. It is the foundation of our lives. It is the foundation of your life. A life without purpose is a meaningless life. A life with purpose is a meaningful life.

To have a dream is to have hope to pursue your dream. If you don’t have a dream, you don’t have any reason to live. A dream is a goal that you set for yourself to achieve. You can only achieve your dream if you know where you are going.

To know where you are going in life, to know what you want to achieve and how to achieve it, you must know how to make peace with your values. Your values control your decisions. Your values guide your life. Your values make your life meaningful. They push you to do more, to be careful, to make the right decisions, and to stay away from what is wrong.

If you want to build your own dream, if you want to live a purposeful life, you must do the right thing, even if no one is watching you. You must create your own path, meaning you must do your own thing. You must live your own life, in your own way. You must find something that you are passionate about. You must live and practice your own values, not someone else’s values. You must commit yourself to being there for people, when they need you. You must learn how to serve others and yourself.

If you don’t build your own dream, if you don’t build your own life, another person will take control of your life and do it for you. If you allow that to happen, then you are living someone else’s dream, not yours.