Put Yourself First, Not Last

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Stop putting yourself last. You are not going to be able to help other people if you do not stop putting yourself last.

Stop it! Stop putting yourself down. It is not helping you. If you want to lift other people up, you must first lift yourself up.

If you want to change the world, you must first change yourself. If you want to build a strong house, you must have a solid foundation.

If you do not have a solid foundation, you won’t be able to live a normal life.

If you can’t live a normal life, you are not living at all. Is that good for you? Is that what you want?

Remember, you are a special human being. You are different. You are unique.

When you are helping other people, do not forget who you are. Do not forget what you want. And do not forget what you stand for.

Above all, do not forget the relationship you have with yourself. If you do not maintain the best relationship with yourself, then you are in trouble.

Why? Because if you don’t love yourself, you won’t be able to love other people.

If you do not have a great relationship with yourself, it is going to be difficult to build positive relationships with others.

If you want to life your life on your own terms, you must stop putting yourself last.

Instead of putting yourself last, instead of putting yourself down, instead of taking yourself for granted, why not take good care of yourself?

Why Every Moment Matters

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‘Man is but a passing flame….’- George MacDonald

According to George MacDonald, ‘Man is but a passing flame….’ That is true.

Life is passing. Whether we are living well or not, life is passing. It is not going to wait for you. It is certainly not going to wait for anyone, not even me.

And that is why we should never joke with our lives. That is also why we should live our lives to the fullest.

All we have is now, right now, right where you are, not later, not tomorrow, not next week.

Don’t use this moment to worry about your past mistakes. Don’t go there!

Instead of reliving your past mistakes, your past failures, your past disappointments, why not use it to explore new opportunities?

Why not use it to love yourself even more? Why not use it to connect with other great people in your life?

Why not use it to enjoy a great book, a hot cup of coffee?

Why not use it to do what you have always wanted to do? Why not use it to go to where you have always wanted to go? Why not?

Why not? You deserve it. Give it to yourself. You deserve to be here. Live your life really well. Do not try to fix your life, just live it.

Remember, no one is perfect. You are not alone in your fight. So whatever it is that is bothering you, you can face it.

All you need to do is to believe in yourself. Remember, ‘You are not alone.’