Tag: Intentional Focus

Pay Attention To What You Really Want

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

If you want something, you must pay attention to it. Believe it or not, you are still struggling to make things happen because you are doing urgent things, not important things.

Nothing is worthless, but some things are more important than others. If you want to get what you want, you must focus on what is important to you.

Don’t focus on what is missing in your life. Instead, focus on what is there. Remember, whatever you don’t take care of, you are going to lose it.

If you don’t want to lose what you already have, you must take care of it. You must focus on what is there. If you don’t, you are not going to get what you want.

4 Ways To Get Anything You Want In Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Whatever it is that you want, it is on the other side of work. If you really want it, don’t let anything stop you from going after it.

To get what you want, you have got to be authentic. Be real. Be you. Do not try to be other people. The only person you can ever be in life is you.

According to Harriet Minter, ‘Be authentic and don’t let anyone try to change you.’ If you don’t play your own game, you will never win.

If you really want to be successful in life, you must reject labels. Do not let people label you. You are not for them. You are for you. You are for God. And that is good enough for you.

‘We like things to fit into categories, but when we allow labels to define us we can unintentionally hold ourselves back.’– Harriet Minter

You can get whatever it is that you are after. But you must be willing to take calculated risks.

In the words of Harriet Minter, ‘Be accountable to yourself and to everyone else.’ If you want things to change, take actions. Take more actions. Whatever happens, accept the results. Do not blame people. If you blame other people, you are telling them how weak you are.

If you want to succeed in life, you must ‘confront failure.’

‘When we fail, it’s easy to feel ashamed or to believe it’s because we’re not good enough. It’s time to reframe failure as something that’s inevitable in our drive for perfection.’- Harriet Minter

When it comes to success, failure is not a crime. It is okay to fail. If you are not failing, you are not doing anything. You are not doing enough. If you don’t want to make mistakes, how are you going to succeed?