This Is Discipline

If you do not discipline yourself, life will do it for you. If you do not know how to show up for yourself, no one will show up for you. That is discipline. That is life. Because life is about self-discipline. If you don’t discipline yourself, you won’t know when you are not doing enough for yourself.

That is what discipline does for us. It holds things together. It keeps us on track. It keeps us going. It helps get over obstacles. It forces us to do things that we wouldn’t have done.

Discipline is hard. But we need it. We need the spirit of dicipline in our lives. If we are not disciplined, we are going to be everywhere.

When you are everywhere, you are nowhere. When you are running in circles, you are not running at all. When you are not doing the right things, you are not doing anything at all. When you are not showing up for yourself, you are not showing up for yourself at all.

And life is about self-discipline. If we are not disciplined, we are going to be stuck in a rut.

So if you want to discipline yourself, you have got to be there for yourself. You have got to have the courage to do what is scary. You have got to be comfortable with the uncomfortable. You have got to have the courage to stand up for yourself, to do what you have not done before in your life.

To discipline yourself, you must always show up for yourself. You must always do what you need to do to get what you want. That is discipline.

Discipline is not about being the strongest in the room. It is not about being the smartest in the room. It is not about being the toughest in the room. Discipline is more than that.

So what is discipline? It is having the courage to show up for yourself. It is having the courage to do what you need to do.

If you want to be successful, you must have the courage to show up for yourself.

The question is, Will you show up for yourself?

How To Reset Your Life

If you don’t like what is going on in your life, it is your responsibility to look within you. Do not blame it on others. Do not blame it on your family people. Yes, where we are can affect how we do things in life.

But we are responsible for what we do, what we think, and how we feel.

If you do not like your life, reset it.

If you do not like your work, reset it.

If you do not like where your life is going, reset it.

Because life is about starting again. To start again is to hit the reset button. To hit the reset button is to wake up.

Reset means doing something again. Trying something again.

Stuck means staying where you are. Not trying anything at all. Not growing at all. Just doing the same thing every day.

To hit your own reset button, don’t live in your past. Because ‘the past cannot tell you who you are, but it can give you clues about which future will provide you with the most freedom to be entirely yourself.’

When you hit your own reset button, you can learn from your past, but do not stay there.

Share your passion with people who can help you. Do not share your dreams with dream killers. And be willing to learn from your supporters.

Because ‘when you share passion, play together, and are vulnerable in your conversations, you you get to know each other in a way that isn’t otherwise possible. You build bonds of trust, and you want to do more together because it makes you feel more alive. … together, you can take more risks that wouldn’t be possible alone, because you each bring your best to the process.’

Do not waste your time. Remember, you are starting again. You are restarting your life, your success engine. Be with people who are pursuing what you are going after.

‘When you make genuine connections with like-minded people, those connections often develop into honest, authentic relationships, and magic can happen.’

The question is, ‘Are you making the right connections with the right people?’ If you are, keep on keeping on!

Source:

Gezim Gashi (2021). Unlocked: the power of YOU