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To Bring About Change, You Must Master Your Fears

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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If you want to bring about real change in your life, you must master your fears. Fear is real, but do not let fear stop you from living your real life. In the words of Dr. Pat Francis, “Fear robs peace and releases anxiety.” Fear loves darkness. To conquer fear, you must attract light into your life.

Do not carry fear in your heart. Carry love in your heart. When you have love in your heart, you can give love to other people. Whatever you are going through right now in your life, do not forget to carry love in your heart. Because if you don’t have love in your heart, you can’t get along with other people. You need love to get along with other people.

Love heals. Love conquers fear. Do not fight your fears. Just increase the love you give out to other people. Whatever you are doing right now, do it with love in your heart.

Do not let fear stop you from living your true life. It can stop you from moving from where you are to where you want to be. It is strong, but you are stronger. Live your life with love in your heart. And love will always follow you.

Follow Love, Not Fear

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Follow love, not fear. Love yourself. You love yourself by choosing love. You do not get to love by carrying hate thoughts in your mind. And to spread your love around, you must carry love thoughts in your heart. Why is that?

Because you cannot give what you don’t have. If you don’t have love, you can’t give out love. It is in your heart that you must keep love. It is in your heart that you must plant the seeds of love. Do not just plant it there. If you don’t nurture it, if you don’t water it, it will die. Love is fragile.

Follow love, not fear. When you follow love, you can pursue what you want in your life. You can do what you want to do in your life. You can do what makes you happy. You can free yourself from fear. You can free yourself from your past. You can do what you have always wanted to do. When you follow love, you can face your fears. You can listen to the demons within you. You can become your real self.

Life is all about becoming you. It is about becoming whole. To do that, to become whole, you don’t need to change everything about you. All you need to do is to connect with your real self. The self within you. You can change a few things, but not everything. You can stop telling yourself false stories. You can stop feeding the things that are hurting you. You can stop living your old life. And you can change what is not working for you anymore, and replace them with positive habits. And to connect with your real self, you must be honest with yourself. Do not lie to yourself. It doesn’t help. It hurts.