Tag: Experience

Stop Feeling Unworthy

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

We are chasing different dreams. We are not going to achieve the same results. We are going to live in different places. We are not going to buy the same things. Why is that?

Because we are different. Because that is who we are. Nothing is going to change that. And you are not going to be able to change yourself into something you are not. It won’t work.

If you try it, you are not yourself. You are not who you are, the real you. You are living a fake life. You are moving away from your real self. And that is hard to keep.

If you are not yourself, if you don’t feel worthy, if you think you are not good enough, if you think other people are better than you, then you are in for a long walk.

If you want to achieve success, if you really want to be present for yourself, if you want to be there for yourself, you must stop saying negative things about your life.

Because negative thoughts equal negative results. If you want different results, then you have got to think better thoughts. If your thoughts are good, your results will be good. If your thoughts are poor, weak, negative, your results will be the same.

That is why you should always treat yourself the right way. If you want to see light in your life, then speak light into your life.

If you want to experience love in your life, then send love into the world. If you want to attract great people, then you must be great yourself.

If you want to produce better results, you must first improve yourself.

That is what great people do. That is what great laeders do. They don’t say negative things. Instead, they pour love into their lives.

You can do the same. You can turn your life around. All you need to do is to change how you treat yourself. If you change how you treat yourself, your life will change.

Will you do it?

Do Not Limit Yourself. You Can Do More Than You Think

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

You are limitless. If you want more, you can do more. If you can do more, you can get more.

It depends on what you want to accomplish for yourself. Success depends on what you want. ‘The goal you decide to tackle does not necessarily have to be world changing. It can be as big or small, as easy or complicated, as you like. The key is that it must be meaningful to you.‘

You are more likely to do well in your life when you do what you love, not what you hate. Because ‘deep down inside, we know that we are limitless. But our brains and the world around us confine us so we remain smaller than we should be.’

You don’t have to accept that. You can change your direction. What you want in your life is different from what the world wants you to have. Don’t believe it. They are lies. If you want to be different, you must do what others don’t want to do.

Success comes from doing what you love. Failure comes from blaming other people for your life. Do not do that. When you blame other people for your past, what is happening in your life, what will happen in the future, you are limiting your power, the power to be you, the real you.

Remember that ‘every experience you’ve had up until this point in your life, including those that have been the most difficult, is an asset when you choose to learn from it.’

That is life. What life gives to you, take it. Do something good with it. Do not blame people for your life. Take responsibility for your life. Taking responsibility for your life is a strength, not a weakness. According to Hal Elrod, ‘It is your responsibility to make the changes necessary to go to next level.’

Your next level. It is right in front of you. If you want to catch it right now, you have got to expand your comfort zone. ‘As you expand your comfort zone, you also expand what’s possible for you.’

And to get out of your comfort zone, you must focus on what you are doing, not where you are going. When you focus on what you are doing, you will know what not to do. You will know what to avoid. It will allow you to really focus on what you are doing, not on what you are going to get.

Remember, according to Hal Elrod, ‘every result is preceded by a process and the key to consistent goal achievement is to stay committed to your process without being emotionally attached to your results.’

Will you do that for YOU? Will you stay committed to your goal?

Source:

Hal Elrod (2019). The Miracle Equation: The Two Decisions That Move Your Biggest Goals from Possible, to Possible, to Inevitable