How To Be The Best You Can Be

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You can’t recreate the world, but you can recreate your own self. You can’t control everything, but you can take care of your life.

You can be the best you can be in your life. To do that, remember, life is not an event. It is more than that. Life is a process. Guess what? Process takes time.

4 Ways to be the best you can be.

Help people be their best.

According to Dave Gordin, ‘Give all you can. Help people be their best. You will be rewarded in return.’ He is right. If you want to get better at what you do, the fastest way to get there is to help another person get better. Remember, you are the only person responsible for your life. If you do not do it for yourself, no one will.

Embrace what you do not know.

Sharon Blackie writes, ‘Embrace mystery. don’t be afraid of what you don’t know.’ Try to know what you don’t know. If you don’t know something, it is an opportunity for you to explore the world around you. If you don’t face it, you will never know it.

Push yourself

In the words of Jennifer Cohen, ‘If you want that bigger, better life, push yourself off the wall you’ve been sitting on for far too long and practice habits that will lead you to a bold identity.’ We get better when we challenge ourselves, when we have the courage to get out of our comfort zones. That is what it takes to grow. It is not an easy thing to do. But if you do not challenge yourself, if you do not push yourself out of your comfort zone, you will never grow.

Take accountability for your where you are going.

If you do not take charge of your growth, who do you think is going to do it for you? No one. If you are waiting for people to lead you, you will never arrive. According to Dave Gordin, ‘If you are willing to do the work and commit to taking accountability for your future, you will achieve the lasting success you want.’ The question is, ‘Are you willing to do the work? Are you willing to take charge of your future?’ If you are, then success is likely to happen.

Wherever you are, always Recruit The Best!

Stop Expecting Things To Be Perfect

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Yes, ‘judge me when you are perfect.’ Are you perfect? If you are not perfect, then why are you expecting others to be perfect?

Why are you expecting things to be perfect? If that is what you want, you are going to be disappointed.

Why is that? Because nothing is perfect. Life is not perfect. People are not perfect. You are not perfect. No one is perfect.

According to Terry L. Paulson, ‘Expecting that everything will go well is not healthy; in fact, unrealistic expectations are a sure road to unhappiness.’

So if you want to grow, don’t worry about being perfect. Instead of striving to be perfect, why not strive for self-improvement?