Tag: Destiny

Who Is In Control Of Your Happiness?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Workplace Learning Report
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Do you know who is responsible for your happiness? Are in charge of your life?

If you are in charge of your life, then you are the master of your own destiny. You can do whatever you want with yourself. You can make yourself happy.

Happiness is not what you look for. Happiness is within you.

According to Barbara De Angelis, ” No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change.”

Yes, you are responsible for your happiness. No one can make you happy but you. If you are waiting for people to make you happy, you will wait forever.

Don’t wait for the perfect time to make yourself happy. If want to be happy, make yourself happy.

No Life Is Problem-Free

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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You may not have chosen your life, but you can choose how you will live it. You may not have chosen your problems, but you can choose how you will manage them. Remember, if you want to live a peaceful life, if you want to live a successful life, if you want to be productive in your life, there is no problem-free life.

What matters is you. What really matters is where you are going. If you focus on where you are going, you will get there. But be patient with yourself. Herman Hesse said, “What matters in a person’s existence is to accept the inevitable consciously, to taste the good and bad to the full and to make for oneself a more individual, unaccidental and inward destiny alongside one’s external fate…” It is impossible to live your life without tasting the good and bad things. If you are honest with yourself, to get what you want, you must accept what you don’t want to accept.

You can’t solve a problem without first accepting it. If you want to solve a problem, you must first understand it. According to Robert H. Schuller, “Everybody has problems. No life is problem-free.” And to solve a problem, according to Robert H. Schuller, “Put your problem in proper perspective.” We all have problems. From today, you should always focus on solutions, not problems.