Tag: Comfort zone

Do Not Be Afraid To Change Your Mind

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

If things are not working for you, do not get frustrated. Do not beat yourself up. Ask yourself, ‘What is going on? Why am I not getting it right? What am I missing?’ Never ask, ‘Why me?’ That is not good. That is not good for you. Just because you are learning does not mean you are not going to get better.

Just beacuse you are struggling to understand something does not mean you are stupid. Just because you are still trying to know yourself better doesn’t mean you are a weak person. Just because you don’t want to be abused by those who don’t know you, that doesn’t mean you are a bad person. Or that you are a loner. You are not a loner. You love yourself. You don’t want to be abused by people who don’t know what it really means to be alive.

If something is not for you, do not pretend to like it. If you do, you are wasting your time. If you are not comfortable with people, do not pretend to like them. It is okay to say, ‘I love myself more.’ Do not pretend to do anything that you are not proud of. If you do, you are hurting yourself.

Is That What Life Is All About?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Staying in your comfort zone is good. Because it makes us comfortable. It does not challenge us. We love it!

It is stress-free. But is that what life is all about? If life is about staying in the zone, then we are okay. But it is not. The world bigger than us. It is bigger than our safe zones.

If you want to grow your success muscles, you must get out of your safe zone. The world is calling you. Growth is calling you. Success is calling you. Great people are calling you. Your soul is calling you.

The question is, Are you listening? You have got to listen. If you want to hear what is going on in the world, you must listen.

If you want to grow, you must get out of your comfort zone. You must say ‘bye’ to average. You must say ‘bye’ to mediocrity.

Mediocrity is not for you. An extraodinary life is for you. Do not fear. Go after what you want. Be courageous. Be fearless. It is very important. Why?

Because if you do not have the courage to face what you are not comfortable with, you will never grow. That is not for you. Because you are here to grow, not to waste.