Tag: Comfort zone

How To Get To Where You Need To Go

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
Two Women Walks to Open Field
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You don’t like where you are now. You don’t like what you are doing right now, right where you are. Don’t be scared to leave. Change is scary. It is going to cost you your comfort zone. And if you want to grow in your life, you must change yourself.

If what you are doing right now is not getting closer to where you want to go, change it. Don’t waste your time on it. You must trust yourself. In the words of Natalie Goldberg, “Trust in what you love, continue to do it, and it will take you where you need to go.” Follow what you love to do. Don’t be scared to face it. Don’t talk yourself out of your own dream. Don’t permit people to talk you out of your dream. It is your dream, not theirs. To make it come true, to get to where you want to go, you must hold your dream, work on it, live it, nurture it, and maintain it. Do you trust yourself?

How To Get In Touch With Your Soul

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
Ruins in Forest
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“To make the right choices in life, you have to get in touch with your soul. To do this, you need to experience solitude, which most people are afraid of, because in the silence you hear the truth and know the solutions.”- Deepak Chopra

It is easier to lie to ourselves than to face the truth. Lying to yourself is not moving you closer to your dreams. We are taking about your life, not some useless things. To achieve your goals, it is important to know what you want, what you stand for, where you are, and where you are going. If you keep lying to yourself, if you don’t have the courage to face your music, if you don’t have the courage to see yourself in the mirror, then you are distancing yourself from the real you. You need the real you to build a great life for yourself.

Sometimes it is hard to confront ourselves. But if you can do it, you are on your way to where you want to be- a place where you can hear yourself. Stop lying to yourself. It is hard to face your fears, but doing it is the only way forward. It is comfortable to hide behind your lies. But if you really want to make your soul happy, you must be honest with yourself. Honesty will set you free, not dishonesty.