Tag: Change yourself

How To Create Your Own Circumstances

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being
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Create your own life. Create your own circumstances. Don’t wait for things to happen to you. You make things happen. If you allow people to create your life for you, you will not be happy with the results. If you allow people to control your life, you will never get the time to live your own life.

No matter what, create what you want for yourself. You can create what you want by following your passion, by pursuing your own dreams, by living your values, by taking actions to change your life, by not blaming people for where you are in life, by listening to yourself, and by making your own decisions.

It takes time to create your own circumstances. It is not going to happen overnight. It needs time. Even if you are not getting the results you want, don’t give up. You will win if you don’t give up.

It Is Up To You

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development
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What we are going through today could have been prevented, but we did not prevent them. We allowed them to harm us. We allowed them to set us back. We allowed them to stop us from moving forward. Why?

Many problems we are facing today are not really problems. The way we react to the problems makes them even worse. It is up to you if you want to be reactor or a proactor. It is up to you to make the right decisions to change your circumstances today- right now! It is up to you if you still want to continue hanging out with friends who put you down, who belittle you, who never support anything that you want to do, who never want you to succeed in anything. It is up to you.

It is up to you whether or not you want to start taking responsibility for your actions, and stop blaming people for what has happened to you. The more you blame other people for your own mess, the more frustrated you will be.

It is up to you whether or not you want to forgive people who have treated you badly. It is up to you.

It is up to you whether or not you want to develop yourself- personally and professionally. You can do it if you want to, but it is up to you.

It is up to you to love or hate yourself. It is up to you, not me.