How To Be The Best You Can Be

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You can’t recreate the world, but you can recreate your own self. You can’t control everything, but you can take care of your life.

You can be the best you can be in your life. To do that, remember, life is not an event. It is more than that. Life is a process. Guess what? Process takes time.

4 Ways to be the best you can be.

Help people be their best.

According to Dave Gordin, ‘Give all you can. Help people be their best. You will be rewarded in return.’ He is right. If you want to get better at what you do, the fastest way to get there is to help another person get better. Remember, you are the only person responsible for your life. If you do not do it for yourself, no one will.

Embrace what you do not know.

Sharon Blackie writes, ‘Embrace mystery. don’t be afraid of what you don’t know.’ Try to know what you don’t know. If you don’t know something, it is an opportunity for you to explore the world around you. If you don’t face it, you will never know it.

Push yourself

In the words of Jennifer Cohen, ‘If you want that bigger, better life, push yourself off the wall you’ve been sitting on for far too long and practice habits that will lead you to a bold identity.’ We get better when we challenge ourselves, when we have the courage to get out of our comfort zones. That is what it takes to grow. It is not an easy thing to do. But if you do not challenge yourself, if you do not push yourself out of your comfort zone, you will never grow.

Take accountability for your where you are going.

If you do not take charge of your growth, who do you think is going to do it for you? No one. If you are waiting for people to lead you, you will never arrive. According to Dave Gordin, ‘If you are willing to do the work and commit to taking accountability for your future, you will achieve the lasting success you want.’ The question is, ‘Are you willing to do the work? Are you willing to take charge of your future?’ If you are, then success is likely to happen.

Wherever you are, always Recruit The Best!

How To Find Your Own Happiness

‘Loving yourself starts with the decision to live for your own individual happiness. Happiness and love are not finite commodities. They are infinite. Getting happy and loving yourself doesn’t mean that you are taking away from anyone’s happiness. You will not hurt anyone if you prioritize happiness. Instead, that happiness will overflow within you, and the light of your happiness will lead those who live in darkness out of it. You will show other people how to find their own happiness. You will show them how through the clarity of your example.’-Teal Swan

Everything, I mean everything, starts with you. Your love starts with you. Your happiness starts with you.

That is because, you can’t give out what you do not have. Remember that you are responsible for your happiness. If you want to be happy, you can make yourself happy.

To get there, to find your real happiness, make other people happy. Remember, happiness is not what you get from other people; it is what you give to other people.

If you want to be happy, you have got to take care of you own thoughts.