Tag: Accountability

4 Ways To Get Anything You Want In Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Whatever it is that you want, it is on the other side of work. If you really want it, don’t let anything stop you from going after it.

To get what you want, you have got to be authentic. Be real. Be you. Do not try to be other people. The only person you can ever be in life is you.

According to Harriet Minter, ‘Be authentic and don’t let anyone try to change you.’ If you don’t play your own game, you will never win.

If you really want to be successful in life, you must reject labels. Do not let people label you. You are not for them. You are for you. You are for God. And that is good enough for you.

‘We like things to fit into categories, but when we allow labels to define us we can unintentionally hold ourselves back.’– Harriet Minter

You can get whatever it is that you are after. But you must be willing to take calculated risks.

In the words of Harriet Minter, ‘Be accountable to yourself and to everyone else.’ If you want things to change, take actions. Take more actions. Whatever happens, accept the results. Do not blame people. If you blame other people, you are telling them how weak you are.

If you want to succeed in life, you must ‘confront failure.’

‘When we fail, it’s easy to feel ashamed or to believe it’s because we’re not good enough. It’s time to reframe failure as something that’s inevitable in our drive for perfection.’- Harriet Minter

When it comes to success, failure is not a crime. It is okay to fail. If you are not failing, you are not doing anything. You are not doing enough. If you don’t want to make mistakes, how are you going to succeed?

How To Be The Best You Can Be

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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You can’t recreate the world, but you can recreate your own self. You can’t control everything, but you can take care of your life.

You can be the best you can be in your life. To do that, remember, life is not an event. It is more than that. Life is a process. Guess what? Process takes time.

4 Ways to be the best you can be.

Help people be their best.

According to Dave Gordin, ‘Give all you can. Help people be their best. You will be rewarded in return.’ He is right. If you want to get better at what you do, the fastest way to get there is to help another person get better. Remember, you are the only person responsible for your life. If you do not do it for yourself, no one will.

Embrace what you do not know.

Sharon Blackie writes, ‘Embrace mystery. don’t be afraid of what you don’t know.’ Try to know what you don’t know. If you don’t know something, it is an opportunity for you to explore the world around you. If you don’t face it, you will never know it.

Push yourself

In the words of Jennifer Cohen, ‘If you want that bigger, better life, push yourself off the wall you’ve been sitting on for far too long and practice habits that will lead you to a bold identity.’ We get better when we challenge ourselves, when we have the courage to get out of our comfort zones. That is what it takes to grow. It is not an easy thing to do. But if you do not challenge yourself, if you do not push yourself out of your comfort zone, you will never grow.

Take accountability for your where you are going.

If you do not take charge of your growth, who do you think is going to do it for you? No one. If you are waiting for people to lead you, you will never arrive. According to Dave Gordin, ‘If you are willing to do the work and commit to taking accountability for your future, you will achieve the lasting success you want.’ The question is, ‘Are you willing to do the work? Are you willing to take charge of your future?’ If you are, then success is likely to happen.

Wherever you are, always Recruit The Best!