David Brooks On The Power Of Love

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According to David Brooks, ‘Love is like an invading army that reminds you that you are not master of your own house. It conquers you little by little, reorganizing your energy levels, reorganizing your sleep patterns, reorganizing your conversational topics, and, toward the end of the process, rearranging the objects of your sexaul desire and even the focus of your attention.’

When you are in love, you can’t thinking about your beloved. You walk through a crowd and think you see her in a vaguely familiar form every few yards. You flip from highs to lows and feel pain at slights that you know are probably trivial or illusory.’

‘Love is the strongest kind of army because it generates no resistance. When the invasion is only half complete, the person being invaded longs to be defeated, fearfully, but utterly and hopelessly.’

Stop Expecting Things To Be Perfect

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Yes, ‘judge me when you are perfect.’ Are you perfect? If you are not perfect, then why are you expecting others to be perfect?

Why are you expecting things to be perfect? If that is what you want, you are going to be disappointed.

Why is that? Because nothing is perfect. Life is not perfect. People are not perfect. You are not perfect. No one is perfect.

According to Terry L. Paulson, ‘Expecting that everything will go well is not healthy; in fact, unrealistic expectations are a sure road to unhappiness.’

So if you want to grow, don’t worry about being perfect. Instead of striving to be perfect, why not strive for self-improvement?