You Are The Only One Who Can Change Your Life

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Your life matters. You are the only one who can make it better. You are the only one who can change your life. You are your own boss, whether you accept it or not. So what are you waiting for? Don’t wait for anyone to change your life for you. They can’t do it. They don’t even have the power to do it. Because you are a unique person.

“Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.”-Carol Burnett

If you are not responsible for your life, who do you think is responsible for your life? Remember, you can’t control what is not in your hand. Your life is in your hands. So do something about it. If not, why?

When it comes to your life, you are in charge. Period. There is no one who can change you, but you. Don’t listen to people who are not there for you. People will not understand your actions. It is okay. If you know what you are doing, that is good enough. If you understand yourself, that is good enough. You don’t need them to change your life. You need you.

You can change your life, but not in one day. Change is a process. It is painful. It hurts. But if you have the power to do it, you will never be the same again. Your life will change. How you do your work will change. How you see yourself will change. Your whole life will change. But if you don’t change yourself, your life will remain the same- no change- no growth. Do you want that for yourself?

How To Create Your Own Future

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“If you want your tomorrow to be better than today, make today better than yesterday. Then your tomorrow will be better than your today.”- E.Bright

Your tomorrow begins today. What you are doing right now is creating your future. So if you want it to change, you have got to change what is not moving you forward in your life. Do more of what is getting you closer to where you want to be. Growth is not cheap, but necessary. And we cannot grow if you are not honest with ourselves. Growth needs honesty. Because you need to know what you are good at. That cannot happen if you keep lying to yourself.

Lying is a temporary cure, not a permanent one. To cure a disease, you need the right treatment. If you have the courage to take the right pills, you can change things. You can move closer to your goal. You can change your future. But it is not going to happen overnight. You can’t change your life overnight. But you can change your thoughts overnight. You can change your actions overnight. Growth takes time. To get what you want- your future- you have got to be patient. Growth comes from actions. If you take the right action today, your tomorrow will be better than your today.