Day: April 22, 2020

Let Us All Be Happy

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Workplace Learning Report
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“Let us all be happy.” That is all we need. No matter what is happening in your life, choose to be happy. It does not matter where you are at in your career, in your relationships with yourself and others, choose happiness. Choose happiness.

I know that a lot of bad things are happening right now around the world, but choose happiness. When you are happy, the people around you will be happy. When you are sad, the people around you will be sad, even if they don’t tell you, they are.

Charles Farrar Browne said, “Let us all be happy, and live within our means, even if we have to borrow the money to do it with.” Yes, let us all be happy. Remember, on one can make you happy, but yourself. No vacation can make you happy, but yourself. No material possessions can make you happy, but yourself. No amount of money can buy you happiness. But you can make yourself happy even if you don’t have money.

I know what you are thinking. You are kidding me! No, I am not kidding you. You can make yourself happy without money. HOW?

BY CHANGING YOUR THOUGHT! That is all you need to do if you really want happiness. Because happiness is in your mind. You can’t find happiness if all you do is focus on negative things that are happening around you. You can be happy if you focus on positive things, if you think positive things, and if you know how to manage your negative thoughts.

Let us all be happy!

When Regret Is Absent

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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“Never regret yesterday. Life is in you today, and you make your tomorrow.”- L. Ron Hubbard

We are really good at regretting everything that we have done wrong in the past. Regret is just regret. It never adds anything to our precious lives. Then why are we doing it? Why are we spending time to regret? Is it helping or hurting us?

Stop regretting your life, and start enjoying it. Your life has no room for garbage.Yes, no room garbage. Garbage in, garbage out. It is time for you to start enjoying your life. Because whatever you have lost in the past, regret will not bring it back. Regret increases your pain.

You can’t change what happened to you in the past, but you can change how you move forward. You can’t change the past, but you can prepare for tomorrow. But if you keeping regretting everything, you are preventing yourself from reaching your goals. You can’t do well if you keep regretting your past mistakes. You can only move forward if you accept your past mistakes. Stop doing that. You can change things. You can turn things around.

When regret is absent, then your real life comes in. Because when you are regretting your past mistakes, it affects everything you do in your life. You cannot enjoy your life. It affects your thinking, your relationships with yourself and others, your happiness, your career, your spiritual life. It contaminates your attitude. It prevents you from seeing the good things in front of you. It prevents you from seeing things in a positive way. Regret is not for you. Stop doing it, and your life will never be the same again. Amen!