13 Science-Based Quotes That Will Help You Manage Your Worry

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Breathe slowly

‘Your body can’t rev up and slow down at the same time. So when you make a conscious decision to breathe slowly, the rest of your body starts to slow down, too.’- Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg

Relax your body.

‘People with any type of anxiety experience physical signs of that negative arousal. But you can take charge by intentionally relaxing your body.’- Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg

Divert negative thoughts.

‘It’s hard to disbelieve your own brain telling you something bad is about to happen! That is why you need to delibrately identify and divert those thoughts.’- Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg

A feeling is just a feeling.’

‘A primary goal of managing anxiety is understanding that a pounding heart, a flushing face, or a sinking stomach are all just feelings– nothing more.’- Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg

Swap negative thoughts for something better.

‘Blocking a negative thought means you’ll be less likely to have that thought in the future. But you also have to swap the thought out for something better.’– Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg

‘Do the worst first.’

‘Do whatever you’re dreading right away and get it over with.’– Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg

‘Worry is insistent.’

‘Worry is insistent. It feels important. But when you persistently work against it, worry abates.‘- Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg

Reassure yourself.

‘The right reassurance is reassurance that you are competent to handle problems.’- Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg

Focus on solutions

‘There are many good solutions; there is no perfect solution.’– Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg

Face your fear

‘Knowing what you have to gain by facing fear or anxiety is the first step to sticking with a plan for change.’- Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg

‘Imagine yourself succeeding’

‘Your chances of success are much better if you imagine yourself succeeding. By affirming what you want to be true, you create the conditions for that truth.’- Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg

Have fun

Laughing is a great way to increase good feelings while discharging physical energy.’- Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg

Know what you want

‘Knowing what you stand to gain increases your motivation to face your fear.’- Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg

Focus On Where You Are Going

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Comfort is the enemy of growth. Comfort is the enemy of success. And comfort is the root of failure.

If you want to succeed, focus on the journey. Focus on what you are doing. Focus on what you are learning. But if you want to fail, focus on where you are. Focus on what other people are doing. Focus on failure. Focus on what is going to happen to your dreams.

Don’t focus on problems. Focus on solutions. Don’t focus on failures. Because they will happen. There is nothing you are going to do about that. Because they are part of the game.

If you are afraid of failure, then you are not ready for success. Because you can’t succeed without failures, without mistakes.

When it comes success, if you are not failing, you are not trying hard enough. Fail. Do not worry about it. The most important thing is where you are going, your journey.

Do not rest. Keep going. Rest when you are done, not when you are not done.

Is it going to be easy, no. But you can make it. You do that by focusing on the journey, not the end. By focusing on your growth, not your pain. By focusing on the process, not the outcome. The more you focus on where you are going, the better.

Because life is a journey.