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When You Fall, Get Back Up

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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“Life swings like a pendulum backward and forward between pain and boredom.”-

Arthur Schopenhauer

Life is all about falling down and getting back up. It is okay when we fall down, but when you fall down, don’t stay there. Don’t make it your home. It is not your home. When you fall down, rejoice! Be happy. Be glad. It means you are trying to change your position. It means that you want to leave where you are now to somewhere better. It means you are tired of doing the same old things that are not giving you what you want. It means you are tied of hanging out with negative people. It means you want to go chase your dreams. It means you know that there are better days ahead of you. Wow!

“We learn by making mistakes. We learn by falling down. We learn by being ourselves.”

You should celebrate yourself for falling down. It is a sign of progress. If you continue to fall down and get up, you will continue to grow. That is how explorers learn how to explore the world. They start with one step at a time. We learn by making mistakes. We learn to get better by taking risks. If you don’t fall, you can’t learn how to walk. If you don’t fall, you won’t know how to get up. If you don’t fall, you will not know what it means to fall.

Life is all about falling down. If you don’t want to fall, if you don’t want to fail, you don’t want to grow. Growth comes from failing. Real growth comes from falling. Real growth comes from making mistakes and learning from them. Real growth brings happiness. If we are not falling, we are not growing. If we are not failing, it means we are not doing enough. Whatever it is you want to do, just do it. Don’t be afraid of falling. You can’t rise if you don’t fall down.

“Never stop trying. Never stop doing. Never stop loving your life. Never stop loving your work.”

Falling is a part of life. Many people are not successful because they don’t want to fall. They don’t want to fail. They don’t want people to laugh at them. If you really want to change your life, you must be in love with making mistakes and learning from your mistakes. More mistakes, more experiences. The more mistakes you make, the more you will continue to discover in life. Never stop failing forward. Never stop trying. Never stop doing. Never stop loving what you do. Keep falling forward!

How To Go Through Difficult Times Without Breaking Your Back

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Meditation, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Workplace Learning Report
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We cannot go through life without experiencing difficult times. We are going to experience more than one difficulties times. Difficult times are always going to be there. They are part of our lives. We cannot do without them.

It is okay to experience difficult times. It is okay to find ourselves in a very deep hole. The question is, “Are we going to keep digging or are we going seek help?” How you answer this question will determine whether you will be able to cope with difficult times or not.

How we handle difficult times is what separate the poor from the rich. It is not what happens to you, it is how you deal with it that counts. It is not what you are going through that matters, it is what you do with what you are going through that matters. It is not where you are today that matters, it is where you are going and what you are learning from where you are that matters. It is not where you have been that counts, it is where you are going that counts. It is not what people have done to you that counts, it is whether you forgive yourself that counts.

When you are going through difficult times, do not worry yourself. Be positive. Be patient. Do not focus on what is going on in your life. Focus on what you are learning from what you are going through. Difficult times are here to teach you a lesson. Be ready to learn from difficult times. Open your heart to learn from them. If you learn from them, you will gain from them.

Barbara De Angelis said, “Difficult times always create opportunities for you to experience more love in your life.” You will see the opportunities in difficult times if you open your heart to them. Remember, a closed mind is a dead mind. If you want to learn from your situation, open your mind.

When you are going through difficult times, do not think about negative things. Think about positive things. It is when your mind is in a positive state that you can go through your difficult times without breaking your back. Always remain positive.

During difficult times, you need to be yourself. Love yourself. Accept yourself. Surround yourself with positive people. Do not be around negative people. They will suck up your energy. You need your positive energy to through your difficult times without breaking your back.

Remember that you can’t get to good times without first going through the bad times. That is what life is all about. Life is a mixture of everything- good times and sad times.

During difficult times, do not beat yourself up. It is not going to last forever. Difficult times are temporary, not permanent. If it is bad now does not mean that it is going to be bad forever. Nothing lasts forever.

What you are going through right now will not last forever. You will last forever. Amen!