Tag: happiness

Protect Yourself From These People

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

What is your life about? Is it about you? Or is it about those around you? If you want to live a peaceful life, don’t make your life about you.

Instead, make your life about other people, those around you. They matter. They are your real life.

Yes, you have your own life. But your life is not complete without those who really love you.

But if those around you are not supporting you, if they are not healing your wound, if they are adding to your pain, if they are not there for you, if they are not happy, always negative, then you must let them go.

Don’t tolerate them. Do not tolerate any energy suckers. If something is not good for you, then you don’t need it in your life.

If something is not helping you, it is hurting you. If something is not for you, it is against you.

If you want to improve your life, you must first improve your environment. If you are in a toxic place, do not expect anything good to happen to you.

If you are with negative people, don’t expect them to make you happy. If you really value your happiness, your health, your career, you must stay away.

Why is that? Because you cannot get happiness from negative people.

Whose Job Is It?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

‘Whose job is it to get you to the right challenge level at work?

Whose job is it to make the adjustments?’- Bill Hybels

It is your job. Because you know what you want to achieve. You know where you are. And you know where you are going.

So if you are not happy with your job, you can make it better. All you need to do is to change how you see your job.

When you do that, your satisfaction will go up. Your happiness will go up. And you will never be okay with less.

According to Bill, ‘When you can find that level of challenge in your job, your work satisfaction really begins to climb.’