How To Create A Perfect Day For Yourself

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Your perfect day starts with you. It starts when you wake up in the morning. When you get up in the morning, ask yourself, ‘What do I want to make happen today?

What is the most important thing that I must get done today, no matter what? Then you must go ahead and fight for what you want.

Remember that creating a perfect day for yourself doesn’t mean everything is going to be perfect. That is not how life works. Because we are not in control of everything.

To create your own perfect day, you must know what is important to you, where to put your energy, and how to spend your time. It is about doing what is important to you, not what is urgent.

Creating your perfect day isn’t about knowing everything. It is about creating your life with what you have, even though you do not have it all together, even though things are falling apart.

Creating your perfect day is about knowing that things are not going to go according to how you want things to go.

Creating your perfect day means you are going to be okay with whatever happens, no matter where it is coming from, no matter who is involved.

Creating your perfect day is about choosing yourself. It is about choosing your thoughts, your feelings, your actions, and what comes after.

The question is, ‘Do you have the courage to choose your day?’

Are They Really Thinking About You?

‘The only person thinking about if other people are thinking about you is you?’- Lia Garvin

No, they are not. They are not thinking about you. They are not after you. They are not after what you are doing. They are not after where you are. They are not after your failures, your mistakes. They are not.

Get over it. Do not dominate your life with other people’s opinions of you. Do not focus on what people are saying about you. It is not going to help you. It is going to hold you back from actually taking care of your life.

Do not waste your energy. It takes a lot of energy to think about what others are thinking about you. What if they are not thinking about you? What if they are just doing their own things? What if….?

Live your life. Focus on what is on your plate. Focus on what you are doing. Do not focus on what is not even happening. If you think other people are thinking about you, you are the one.