Tag: Dreams

How To Transform Your Self-Image

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

‘The only way to transform your self-image, transform your life, and transform your success in business is to bombard yourself with a never-ending stream of positive suggestions, imagery, praise, visions, desires, goals, and successes.’– Tom Oliver

Positive suggestions will work only if you believe in yourself. It is not enough to just say them. If you want them to work, you must believe them.

It is not something that you can’t change. You can change it. Use whatever works for you to change how you see yourself.

See yourself as a great person. When it comes to success, how you see yourself matters. If you think you are not good enough, you won’t have the courage to live your dreams.

If you believe in your life, then don’t put yourself down. See yourself a doer, not as a follower. According to Tom, ‘Remind yourself that you can grow into this ideal future as easily as you grew from the past into the present.’ Don’t give up before you try!

You Can Turn Failure Around. Here Is How

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

‘Many of our failures sweep us to greater heights of success, than we ever hoped for in our wildest dreams. Life is a successive unfolding of success from failure.’– William George Jordan, The Secrets of Success

To win in life, you must embrace failure. To succeed, to get better at what you are doing, you must make failure your best friend.

You see what is already within you. You don’t see what you do not want to see. If you want to turn failure around, if you want to get better, according to Tom Oliver, ‘Your viewpoint changes everything. Most apparent tragedies are actually blessings in disguise, gift packages that you have to unwrap.’

When you fail at something, it means you are really working hard to know more, to challenge yourself, to get better. But if you are not failing, if you are not falling, it means you are not doing enough to change your life.

Don’t see failure as a crime. It is not. It is a blessing in disguise. If you can focus on learning from your failure, nothing can stop you from achieving your dreams.

‘Every seeming tragedy or failure will contain in it the seeds of a great victory and success.’ When you fail at something, don’t blame yourself. Believe in yourself. Believe that you can do it again. And go to work.

‘If you focus obsessively on opportunities, you can turn any seeming failure around.’ If you want success in your life, focus matters. Failure is not a crime. Not learning from failure is.