Tag: Choose You

Say No To What Is Against You

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Choose yourself. When you choose yourself, it is much easier to do great things than it is when you are against yourself.

When you are who you are, it frees you to live your life, to love yourself, and to face your life.

When you choose yourself, you can challenge yourself to do things that are greater than yourself, things that other people don’t want to do, things that are important to you, to your life, to your growth.

When you choose yourself, you are not afraid to take risks, to create a different path for yourself.

You can do it. You have got to choose yourself first. Why is that? Without you, nothing is going to happen in your life.

When you choose yourself, you are comfortable taking actions to move your life forward.

Above all, when you choose yourself, fear has no power over you. Because you believe in yourself. You know what you want. And when you choose yourself, you are not scared of trying new things, of challenging yourself, of planning for what you do not know, and you are not scared of saying no to what is against your values.

So why not say yes to yourself?

Your life will be way easier if you have the courage to choose yourself.

Above all, choosing yourself builds confidence. If you want to live a better life, why not choose yourself? If you want to build your confidence muscles, why not choose yourself?

How To Accept Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Care for yourself first

‘When you care for yourself first, the world will also find you worthy of care.’- Haemin Sunim

Learn to express yourself

‘Learn to express what you are feeling without agonizing over it. It is a life skill every bit as important as learning how to read. Without it, dissatisfaction builds up, arguments break out, and relationships can blow up like volcanoes.’- Haemin Sunim

Look at your flaws with love

‘Do not despair over what is imperfect in yourself. Instead, look at your flaws with love.’

Choose a life that improves through failure and pain

‘Rather than choosing a life in which you do nothing for fear of making a mistake, choose a life that improves through failure and pain.’– Haemin Sunim

Do not judge people

‘Don’t judge people based on how they appear, as they may have difficulties that nobody can see.’- Haemin Sunim

Do not let criticism upset you

‘If you keep letting criticism upset you, then you will gradually wither, and in the end you will not be able to do anything.’- Haemin Sunim

Forget yourself

‘We often feel happiest when we forget ourselves. When we feel grateful for someone, we think about that person, not so much about ourselves.’- Haemin Sunim

Give more than you take

‘If you want to excel in a relationship, the way to do so is very simple: Give more than you receive. The more we receive, we can’t help but feel grateful and like the person.’– Haemin Sunim