Suffering Can Make Us More Sensitive And Gentle

‘While at times suffering can serve to toughen us,

to strengthen us,

at other times it can have value by functioning in the opposite manner-

to soften us,

to make us more sensitve and gentle.

The vulnerability we experience in the midst of suffering

can open us deepen our connection with others.’

– Dalai Lama & Howard C. Cuttter, A Handbook for Living The Art of Connection

Don’t Focus Too Closely On A Problem

‘If you only look at that one event, then it appears bigger and bigger.

If you focus too closely, too intensely, on a problem when it occurs,

it appears uncontrollable.

But if you compare that event with some other greater event,

look at the same problem from a distance,

then it appears smaller and less overwhelming.’

– Dalai Lama and Howard C. Cutter, MD., A Handbook for Living The Art of Happiness