This ‘Is One Of Life’s Most Valuable Lessons’

‘Self-compassion is when we accept our weaknesses, flaws and insecurities and choose to respond by showing ouselves patience, understanding and kindness.’– Stuart Holah and Adrian Webster

Never beat yourself up. That is not why you are alive. You are alive to give yourself love, to challenge yourself.

You are here on this earth to make a difference in your life. Before you commit yourself to something, always ask yourself why you are doing it. What does it mean to you? What does it mean for your dream?

Is it going to help you? Or is it going to hurt you? Whatever it is that is not going to lift you up, that is not going to make you a better person, that is not going to breathe life into your soul, that is not going to make you bigger than you are now, it is not for you.

Do not waste your time on things that are against your values. Instead of beating yourself up, why not commit yourself to making your life better.

Why not commit yourself to accepting yourself for who you are, not for what you have? Why not commit yourself to loving yourself, regardless of where you are right now in your life?

Why not accept yourself for who you are, not for what you can do. Why not accept yourself as you, regadless of your weaknesses? Why not?

Again, do not beat yourself up for nothing. You deserve more than that. You are more than that.

Remember, if you want other people to love you, you must first love yourself. You are not alone. No one is perfect. We all have something that we don’t want people to know about us. We all have secrets.

You are not alone. Whatever it is that is bothering you, do not give in to it. If you can hang in there, you are more likely to make it in your life. keep going.

Why Motivation Matters

‘Without motivation, enthusiasm lacks a destination. Without enthusiasm, motivation lacks a start point.’- Stuart Holah and Adrian Webster

Motivation is good. But the best motivation is self-motivation. People can talk all they like. But to make things happen in your life, to change your life, to make your life better, to follow your heart, to do what makes you happy, you have got to motivate yourself.

No one can push you to achieve your life. No one can make you do what you do not want to do. If you want to get anything done in your life, do not wait for anyone to motivate you. Because no one can.

‘Enthusiasm sets you on your way, but motivation gets you all the way.’– Stuart Holah and Adrian Webster

Is it easy, no it is not. But if you do not get yourself up from wherever you are right now, no one is coming to get you up.

That is what motivation is all about. It is about getting yourself back up when no one is there to support you. When you are alone.

Motivation is helping yourself when no one is there to help you. It is loving yourself when no one is there to give you love.

When you are self-motivated, nothing can stop you from getting what you want. Instead of waiting for other people to feed you, why not feed yourself?

Instead of waiting for other people to give you what you already have within you, why not reconnect with yourself?