Month: February 2024

What About Your Quiet Master?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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The things we can’t see are more powerful than the ones we can see. Your self-doubt is one of them. Can you see your self-doubt? It is there, but you can’t see it.

It is always working behind the scenes. If you do not do something about it, you are in trouble. Why is that? Because you will never believe in yourself, the things you do, the people you deal with, how you think, what you think about, how you act, and what you respond to.

Self-doubt is very powerful. If you want to win in your life, you must take charge of your life. If you do not have the courage to do it, then self-doubt will do it for you.

When you doubt yourself, who you are, what you can do, you are not in charge of your life. You are not in control of your life, self-doubt is.

When you doubt yourself, you do not believe in yourself. You are always second-guessing yourself, what you can do, who you are.

You can set yourself free. You can start by taking intentional actions.

When you are faced with something bigger than you, do not go back, face it. Do not doubt yourself. Do not be scared to show other people who you really are. Do not hide yourself.

Be proud of who you are. Stand for something. Remember, if you do not stand for something, you stand for nothing.

It is better to stand for something than to stand for nothing.

You can face your self-doubt. Trust yourself. Get out of your comfort zone. Do not be scared to interact with new people. When you are with new people, you are building your self-confidence muscles.

It challenges you to get uncomfortable with yourself. That is how we grow. We grow when we are uncomfortable. We don’t grow when we are too comfortable.

It is not going to be easy,but you can do it. All you need to do is to get started. Do not worry about what people are going to say. Why? Because people will always talk. People will always say something. Do not make that your business.

When that happens, do not take it personally. It is not about you. It is about them.

If you want to be successful in your life, you must take care of your self-doubt. If you don’t, self-doubt will take care of you.

Why You Get In Trouble

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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You get in trouble when you are not in charge of your life. You get in trouble when you are just following the crowd, when you do not question anything. You get in trouble when you don’t believe in yourself, when you don’t think you are good enough to do great things, when you think other people are better than you.

Look, life is not perfect. You won’t be here if you are not good enough. You are good enough. Do not limit yourself.

Whatever you are going through right now in your life, you can deal with it. You can move forward. Instead of beating yourself up, why not focus on how you are going to get better?

Whatever you are going through right now in your life, it is yours to go through. You are learning, not suffering. You can live it. You can live the life you want for yourself. You can recreate your life, your real life, the one you want for yourself.

To do that, it starts with self-belief. You must believe in yourself. That is life. Nothing is going to happen if you don’t believe in yourself.

If you don’t believe in yourself, you will always get yourself in trouble. People who believe in themselves are not afraid to take on difficult things. They are not afraid to live their lives. They are not smarter than you, but they just believe more in who they are.

If you doubt yourself, if you do not believe in yourself, it is going to affect how you live your life, where you are, what you are doing, and where you are going.

You won’t be able to move your life forward.You won’t be able to make yourself happy. And you won’t be able to handle ordinary things.

But there is a way forward. Instead of giving up on yourself, you can pay attention to where your negative thoughts are coming from, question them, and reject them. Yes, reject them. They are not true.

If you do not do something about them, they will do something about you. You will get stuck. You won’t be able to move your life forward. Above all, you are not going to be happy with your life, with yourself.

You won’t be able to move your life forward. Is that what you want for yourself, for your beautiful life?

If it is not, then do something about it.