LIfe is full of difficulties. You can overcome them. You can live a great life. It is not going to happen overnight. You have got to be patient with yourself. And you must be willing to face what is yours to face. If not, you are not going to get anything done.
No matter what you are going through in your life, to overcome, you must face what is yours to face. Here is how:
There are things in life that you cannot control. If you want to conquer, you must prepare for what you do not know. According to Lilly Singh, ‘Not being able to control people and situations doesn’t make you powerless; it just means you have to exercise your power in a different way. If you can’t control people, then control your reaction to them. If you can’t control a situation, then prepare for it.’
She is right. If you want to create a loving life, you must focus on what you can control, not on what you cannot control. Remember, you can’t control everthing. The only thing you can control is your reaction. And the only person you can control is you.
If you want to create a great life, a powerful life, a purposeful life, you must get out of your safe zone. There is nothing there. You have been there. You have done it. And it is time for you to move on. If you do not want to move forward, situation will move you out.
It is better to do it yourself before you are forced to do it. If you want to conquer your life, yourself, in the words of Lilly Singh, ‘You have to seek out situations that make you uncomfortable and then throw yourself into them.’
How many people can really do that? Not a lot. Why is that? Because we love to stay where we already know. We love to do what we are used to. And we do not like to face what we do not know. In other words, people hate what they don’t know. But if you want to grow, you must force yourself to do things that you don’t want to do. If not, you will stop growing.
To keep growing, don’t think of obstacles as problems, but as opportunities to grow yourself. According to Lilly, ‘Think of Discomfort as currency – it’s the price you pay to learn some pretty crucial things.‘ That is true. In life, there is nothing without a price. Everything comes with a price. To win, to be successful, you must do the work. You must get your hands dirty. And you can do it. And you can conquer anything in your life.
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