You cannot become what you want by doing the same thing. 
You cannot become what you want by ignoring yourself. 
To become what you want, you must first see yourself as a winner. 
If you are not a winner, who is? 

Yes, change is scary. But without change, you will remain where you are. 
You will not grow. 
And that is not what your life is all about. 
Life is movement. Life is growth.

If you are not moving, you are not growing. 
If you are not going up, you are going down. 
To become what you want, you must have the courage to face your future, 
to try new things, to welcome change into your life, to see yourself as a winner. 
Because you are a winner. Yes, you are.