No matter what you are going through in life, don’t blame yourself, don’t beat yourself up. Don’t! Instead, embrace your life the way it is. You are the way you are for a reason. You are a unique human being. No one is like you, and no one will ever be. So, embrace it. Embrace the opportunity of being a unique human being, with distinct ways of doing your own things, and living your own life.
Blaming yourself for your past mistakes will not make today enjoyable for you. Instead, it will make you resent yourself; it will make you blame yourself even more. You have the power to change it. You are the only person who can change the way you live your life, the way you think, and the way you treat people. Nobody can do that for you, but you.
When you embrace your life the way it is, you will feel better about yourself. You will enjoy your life even more than before. It will open new doors of opportunities for you. It can also be a great way for you to do things in different ways. You can make your life the way you want it to be. Regrets will not help you become who you want to be, it prevents you from being who you want to be.
When you blame people for your situation, when you blame yourself for your situation, you are not helping yourself; you are preventing yourself from taking full responsibility for your actions. As I said before, you are the only person who can turn your life around- for good.
Blaming is an ineffective way of dealing with any situation, whether it’s negative or positive. Taking responsibility for your actions is the right way to deal with challenging situations. Blaming makes things worse, taking responsibility makes things better. Blaming makes you a victim. Taking responsibility for your actions makes you a victor.
If you want to be a victor, stop blaming and start taking responsibility.