Where there is no struggle, there is no growth, no progress, no expansion, no increase, no strengths. The problem is we see struggle as something to avoid in life. That is not possible. We have to go through it if we are to move to the next level.
Struggle reveals to you your hidden strengths. It shows you what you have inside you. It shows you what you are capable of. It shows you your strengths and weaknesses. If you don’t like to struggle, you don’t like to live, because life is full of struggles. Struggles are the things we have to do to reach our goals, our destination, our dreams. Struggle is the price we have to pay if we are to succeed in life. Where there is no struggle, there is certainly no growth.
We respect something when we struggle to get it. If you are struggling to achieve your dream, keep doing it. You are on the right lane. You are not alone. We are all struggling to get things done. Never give up. You are almost there. Just take one more step, and you will reach your destination.
Just remember, struggling is not forever. It is a process you have to go through to achieve your dreams. It is a process. It takes time. You can do it. Keep doing it!
If you want to enjoy relationships with people, you must first understand them. If you don’t know people, nothing will happen. To know people, I have put together six inspirational quotes that will help you understand the complexities of human beings.
“Some people will never learn anything, for this reason, because they understand everything too soon.”-Alexander Pope, English poet
“People are trapped in history and history is trapped in them.”- James Baldwin, American novelist
“Every man is a volume if you know how to read them.”-William Ellery Channing
“Every human is intended to have a character of his own; to be what no others are, and to do what no other can do.”- William Ellery Channing, preacher
“It is not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those differences.”- Andre Lorde, American writer
“The proper study of mankind is man.”- Alexander Pope, English poet
What we are going through today could have been prevented, but we did not prevent them. We allowed them to harm us. We allowed them to set us back. We allowed them to stop us from moving forward. Why?
Many problems we are facing today are not really problems. The way we react to the problems makes them even worse. It is up to you if you want to be reactor or a proactor. It is up to you to make the right decisions to change your circumstances today- right now! It is up to you if you still want to continue hanging out with friends who put you down, who belittle you, who never support anything that you want to do, who never want you to succeed in anything. It is up to you.
It is up to you whether or not you want to start taking responsibility for your actions, and stop blaming people for what has happened to you. The more you blame other people for your own mess, the more frustrated you will be.
It is up to you whether or not you want to forgive people who have treated you badly. It is up to you.
It is up to you whether or not you want to develop yourself- personally and professionally. You can do it if you want to, but it is up to you.
It is up to you to love or hate yourself. It is up to you, not me.
If you haven’t done it before, give yourself a rose- right now! GIVE YOURSELF A ROSE!
You cannot love other people without starting with yourself. Love yourself before you can love other people. YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED! One way to love yourself is to never, never, never compare yourself to other people. You have your life to live. They have theirs. For example, if you say you love yourself so much, your actions and your lifestyle should back it up.
Give yourself a rose. This rose!
If you want to be really happy, you must love yourself. You must respect yourself. You must accept yourself. You must live with yourself. It does not matter how you look- short or tall, educated or not, rich or poor, fat or slim. You must love and celebrate yourself. There is no one like you. You are a unique human being.
Everything about you is uniquely yours. You cannot find it anywhere, because you are unique.
“Everything about you is uniquely yours.”
When you love yourself, it means you are comfortable with yourself. It means you are living your own life. It means you are not trying to be like other people. Don’t even think about it! It has never worked before, and it will not work for you. For example, don’t be like other people who say, they ‘love themselves,’ but aren’t happy with who they are.
If you have the gut to love yourself, others will love you. Self-love is good for you, and it is also good for the people around you. It is contagious. It is infectious. They will feel it. They will live it. They will celebrate it. Give yourself a rose- right now!