‘If I Will Not Be Myself, Who Will?’

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I know who I am. I do not know who you are. But if you are not you, who are you? One of our purposes in life is to be who we were created to be.

If we are not who we were created to be, who are we? It is important to be yourself. It is also important to know who you are. It is even more important to know who you are not.

You cannot achieve success in life if you don’t know yourself. You cannot be happy in life if you don’t know yourself. You cannot move forward in life if you don’t know yourself.

“If I won’t be myself, who will?” – Alfred Hitchcock

It is very difficult to be ourselves in a world where people want us to be something else. They want us to do what they say. They want us to live their lives. They want us to look like them. Believe me, if you really want to be yourself, you MUST have the courage to stand against all forms of imitation.

Imitation is a disease. Imitation prevents you from knowing your real self. The world does not need imitation. The world needs original people.

Why is it important to know yourself, to be yourself, and to know who you are not?

You will not waste your time doing the wrong things if you know yourself. But you will pursue the wrong dreams if you don’t know who you are not. You will be with the wrong people if you don’t know who you are not. You will be in the wrong relationships if you don’t know who you are not. You will focus on the wrong things if you don’t know who you are not.

It does not matter what you are doing now. What matters is, “Does it represent who you are?” If it does, continue to pursue it. But if it does not, it is time to look for something that will make you who you really are.

You can be your real self if you want to. You are the maker of your life. No one else, but you.

‘Happiness Can Exist Only In Acceptance.’

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Happiness is a state of mind. Your happiness starts in your mind. If you are happy in your mind, you will be happy with your life.

Happiness is possible only if you accept yourself. When you accept yourself, it means you are in love with yourself. It means you are happy with your strengths and weaknesses. It means you don’t care what other people are saying about you. It means you are comparing yourself to yourself, not to others.

Your happiness is your business. Don’t let it go away. You can be happy if you just pay attention to your thoughts. Pay attention to what you are thinking about. If you catch yourself thinking about negative things, stop it.

“Happiness can exist only in acceptance.”-

George Orwell

If you really want to be happy, focus on what you have, not what you don’t have. What you have is what matters in your life, not what you do not have.

People are not happy because they focus on what is not working for them. If you want to be happy, control what you think about.

Happiness is in your thought. Think positive thought, and happiness will come to you.