Is it really possible to go through life without a single scar? Maybe, maybe not. Life is full of scars. Your job is to use your scar to get to the next level. Don’t use your scar to limit yourself. Use it to grow yourself. And to understand your scar, you must accept it. Because you cannot change or use what you don’t accept. Your scar is uniquely yours. So find a way to use it in a positive way.
Remember the old saying, “What doesn’t kill you will make you stronger.” Your scar will not kill you. Instead, your scar will make you better. But you must accept it.
Your life matters. You are the only one who can make it better. You are the only one who can change your life. You are your own boss, whether you accept it or not. So what are you waiting for? Don’t wait for anyone to change your life for you. They can’t do it. They don’t even have the power to do it. Because you are a unique person.
“Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.”-Carol Burnett
If you are not responsible for your life, who do you think is responsible for your life? Remember, you can’t control what is not in your hand. Your life is in your hands. So do something about it. If not, why?
When it comes to your life, you are in charge. Period. There is no one who can change you, but you. Don’t listen to people who are not there for you. People will not understand your actions. It is okay. If you know what you are doing, that is good enough. If you understand yourself, that is good enough. You don’t need them to change your life. You need you.
You can change your life, but not in one day. Change is a process. It is painful. It hurts. But if you have the power to do it, you will never be the same again. Your life will change. How you do your work will change. How you see yourself will change. Your whole life will change. But if you don’t change yourself, your life will remain the same- no change- no growth. Do you want that for yourself?