Tag: Focus

You Can Have What You Want, But You Must Do This

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘You can have the life you want no matter who you are.’- Chris Guillebeau

You are who you say you are,not what other people say you are.

Whatever you want to achieve in your life, you can achieve it. To get there, you must focus on your purpose. You must focus on how you are going to achieve your goals.

When you are done with one goal, set another one. That is life. If you want to achieve more than your past Self, you must do more. You must think more. And you must believe in yourself more.

No one is going to push you. Whatever you want, go after it. Do not let fear defeat you. Leave your safe zone. There is nothing happening there.

‘A meaningful life begins when you decide your life is worth living.’– Sara Kuburic

If you want to have what you want, all you need to do is to focus on what you are doing.

Getting what you want is about taking action, not about talking.

It is about facing your challenges. It is about trying new things. It is not about talking about what you are going to do, but actually doing what you say you are going to do.

It is about facing your fears. When you face your fears, you can have what you want. But if you do not have the courage to face your fears, nothing is going to change.

Labels Are Not Real

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Love and label cannot coexist. Love and judgment cannot coexist. When you label people, you can’t love them.

To love people, do not judge them. To love people, do not label them.

You cannot love and label at the same time. Remember, love is acceptance, not judgment. Love is accepting people for who they are. Love does not focus on people’s weaknesses. Love accepts weaknesses.

‘Every label we hold, every label we stick on others, every label we judge is not real. They’re not real, but they’re effective. These labels do a wonderful job of making the ‘other’ less us and easier to care less about.’– Humble the Poet

If you really want to love other people, do not focus on their weaknesses. Instead, focus on their strengths.

Remember, when you focus on what people are not good at, you will miss what they are good at. Do not let that happen to you.