Month: February 2024

Say No To What Is Against You

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Choose yourself. When you choose yourself, it is much easier to do great things than it is when you are against yourself.

When you are who you are, it frees you to live your life, to love yourself, and to face your life.

When you choose yourself, you can challenge yourself to do things that are greater than yourself, things that other people don’t want to do, things that are important to you, to your life, to your growth.

When you choose yourself, you are not afraid to take risks, to create a different path for yourself.

You can do it. You have got to choose yourself first. Why is that? Without you, nothing is going to happen in your life.

When you choose yourself, you are comfortable taking actions to move your life forward.

Above all, when you choose yourself, fear has no power over you. Because you believe in yourself. You know what you want. And when you choose yourself, you are not scared of trying new things, of challenging yourself, of planning for what you do not know, and you are not scared of saying no to what is against your values.

So why not say yes to yourself?

Your life will be way easier if you have the courage to choose yourself.

Above all, choosing yourself builds confidence. If you want to live a better life, why not choose yourself? If you want to build your confidence muscles, why not choose yourself?

Take Care Of Your Self-Doubt First

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Self-doubt is the road to failure. When you doubt yourself, your self-confidence will go down.

If you do not believe in who you are, if you do not believe in yourself, success is going to be hard for you.

You won’t be able to attack life if you do not believe in yourself. And you won’t be able to do great things if you do not believe you can do them.

Do not forget that success starts with self-belief, not self-doubt. On the other hand, failure starts with self-doubt, not self-belief.

Self-belief is the road to success. While self-doubt is the road to failure.

If you want to succeed in your life, do not doubt yourself. Do not doubt what you can do. Why is that? Because you can do a lot more than you think.

You can’t do everything, but you can do enough to change your life. Self-doubt is not for you. If you have been doing it, now is the right time to stop it. Do not do it.

People who doubt themselves don’t believe in themselves.

Self-doubt means you do not believe in yourself. It means you are not good enough for something powerful, for something bigger than you.

Self-doubt is not for you. It affects every area of your life. It affects everything in your life. It affects how you see the world around you. it affects how you treat yourself, how you treat other people, and your career.

If you want to conquer your self-doubt, you must face it. You must stop playing small games. You must get yourself out there. Do not surround yourself with low-energy people. You must surround yourself with people who are taking actions, who are doing things.

Self-confidence, on the other hand, means self-belief. When you believe in yourself, everything is possible. It means you believe in yourself, no matter what.

It means you believe in who you are, the real you, not the fake you. It means you have what it takes to take on your life.

When you are faced with negative things, all you need to do is to focus on what is really going on in your life, not what you think is going to happen in the future.

And do not take it personally. It is not about you. It is about life. Remember, life is bigger than you. So why worry?