Use The Fear Of What Other People Think To Motivate Yourself

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Fear is real, but don’t let it stop you from doing your job. When you focus your time and energy on fear, you will never do anything. Fear is there. It is real. Don’t worry about it.

Learn to be okay with fear. You have nothing to lose. You have everything to gain. You will gain confidence. You will gain yourself. You will gain your soul. Instead of running away from fear, the best way to conquer it is to face it. If you don’t face your fears, they will dominate you. They will stop you from trying to live your life in your own way.

You are better than what you fear. You are stronger than your fear. Face it. Not facing your fear is a total waste of your time. Because your dreams will never come true. Running away from your fear will not change anything. It will keep you in your comfort zone. All fear does is stop you from moving forward. It stops you from moving away from an abusive relationship. It steals your life away. It keeps you from reaching your goals. It paralyzes your dreams. It cripples you. Don’t allow it. You can stop it. You can stop it by facing it.

You can face your fear by walking in the direction of your fear. When you meet your fear, your fear will give in. But if you approach your fear from afar, your fear will grow bigger.

If you allow the fear of what other think to stop you from living your life, then you are not living. You are just existing. As I said before, fear is there. It is real. Since you know that, then why are worrying about the fear of other people? You shouldn’t worry about it. Let them say whatever they like. It is not your problem, but theirs.

In going forward, know this: “You can’t change people’s opinions. So don’t be a prisoner to other people’s opinions.” If you can do that, you are free!

How To Stop The Things You Desire From Running Away

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“Like attracts like.” Sometimes we attract negative things into our lives. We can change that by changing our thoughts.

No matter who we are, where we are in life, what we do, we flourish in a positive environment. We don’t like to be belittled. We want to be valued as human beings. If we can’t get it, we leave. We walk away. We run away. We find a new purpose.

Sometimes we are responsible for the things that are leaving us. We don’t value them. We don’t take care of them. We neglect them. We don’t nurture our relationships. If you want something to grow, nurture it. If you want to grow, you must nurture your life, your heart, your mind, and your soul.

“The moment you begin to doubt, to worry, to fear, you demagnetize yourself, and the things you desire flee from you.”

Orison Swett Marden

Do not doubt yourself. Doubt cripples. It brings you down. It stops you from making things happen. The moment you question yourself, the moment you criticize yourself, good things will stop coming your way. To change that, you must appreciate yourself, love yourself, celebrate yourself, and lift yourself up. Don’t say negative things about yourself, your life, and your work.

You can’t receive great things if you are not ready to receive them. If you want to receive great things, you must stop doubting yourself.