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Whenever You Catch Yourself Comparing Yourself To Others, Say This One Thing To Yourself

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Comparing yourself to other people is a total waste of your time. Stop doing that to yourself.

The people you are comparing yourself to have their own problems. They are going through things that you don’t know. They are human beings. Don’t forget that people are not who you think they are. You don’t even know anything about them. You don’t know what they have. You don’t know anything about their secret lives. Do you? Even if you do, stay away from other people’s lives. Focus on yourself. Do what will get you closer to your dreams. Fight your own fight. Walk your walk. Walk along your own path to wherever you want to go.

Stop comparing yourself to others. No one can be like you. And no one ever will be. Comparing yourself to others can make you unhappy. Comparing your life to other people’s can make you hate what you have. Remember that every day is a gift to change your own life, to walk your talk, to love, to make yourself happy, to pursue your dreams, to grow, not to chase other people’s dreams.

When you wake up in the morning, say to yourself, “Thank God.” Instead of looking at what other people are doing, look at what you are doing. Small or big, still look at it with love. Treat yourself with love.

Whenever you notice that you are comparing yourself to others, quickly remind yourself that you are happy with where you are, with what you do, and with your life. Whenever you catch yourself doing comparing thing, quickly replace it with love. Say to yourself, “I love myself.”

Comparing yourself to others is not the way forward. If you want to go forward in your life, if you want to add value to other people, if you want to add value to your own life, focus on your “why”. Don’t compare. If you have the courage to focus on yourself, you can connect with the real you. When you stop comparing yourself to others, you are able to see, feel what is going on in your inner life.

Live your life. Enjoy your life. Focus on what God has done for you. Focus on what you have, not what you don’t have. Enjoy what you have, not what you don’t have. Again, whenever you catch yourself playing comparison game, bring your thoughts to the present moment. If you can do that for yourself, your life will never be the same again.

Are You Committed To What You Are Doing?

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What are you committed to? Are you committed to what you are doing? Before you commit yourself to anything, make sure it is related to your dreams, your goals. You don’t want to waste your time on the wrong things. You must know what you are chasing in your life.

What are you chasing? What do you want to do with your life? Where are you going?

It is painful to commit to the wrong thing in life. It takes a lot of resources to commit to something. Commitment is not easy, but doable.

Commitment is hard, not soft. Committing to something takes time and energy.

Committing to something special to us takes work, real work.

Commitment is hard, but you can do it. You can do it. If you want to succeed in your life, you must commit yourself to what you are doing. It doesn’t matter what it is. Whatever it is, you must commit yourself to do it well. That is the only way to success. When we are committed to our lives, we can do whatever we want. We can get whatever we want. Because success comes from commitment. You cannot grow without commitment, without doing the right thing, without taking the right risks, without trying new things.

We are all doing new things every day. We are all looking for something that can change our lives. And to get that thing, that miracle, we must commit ourselves to whatever we are doing. Whatever you want to do, go for it. Don’t let fear keep you away from doing it. Once in a while, try to reevaluate your commitment. Because it is easier to get something done if you know what you are doing. But if you don’t know what you want, don’t give up. This is not the time to quit. It is the time to evaluate where you want to go next in your life. It is really the time to reevaluate what you really want to achieve for yourself. But to achieve your dreams, you must know what you are committed to? What are you committed to? Do you know it? If not, it is never too late to figure it out. And the time to start is NOW.