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8 Simple Ways To Forgive Yourself

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Forgiveness is not about other people. Forgiveness is about you. It is the way forward. No matter what people have done to you, forgive them. It is a process. It is not an overnight thing. It is not an overnight event. It takes time to forgive. Do not rush yourself. Just take your time to prepare yourself. Forgiveness is not easy, but it is better for you, for your health, for your life. So if you want to do it, now is the right time to do it.

You can. You will. And you must forgive. Here is how to do it properly:

Change what you believe about yourself

“I change my story by changing what I believe about myself.“- Don Miquel Ruiz

Forgiveness starts with you. It is for you. So to really forgive yourself, to really forgive others, you must first change what you believe about yourself. If you cannot change what you believe about yourself, you cannot forgive yourself.

Learn from your mistakes

Do not let your past mistakes take over your life. It is normal to make mistakes. You cannot grow without them. A mistake is a sign of growth. If you make mistakes, do not beat yourself up. Just learn from them. In the words of Anthony Robbins, “Take the opportunity to learn from your mistakes: find the cause of your problem and eliminate. Don’t try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human.” That is why you should make more mistakes. Because learning is not about trying to be perfect, but to get better at what you do.

Value yourself

Until you value yourself, you won’t value your life. And do not expect other people to value you if you cannot value yourself, if you cannot respect yourself. M. Scott Peck once said, “Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time.” Why is that? Because your life is time. And time is your life. Remember, if you value your life, you won’t waste your time. No matter what, do not let anyone put you down. You must surround yourself with great people. To do that, you must first value yourself. You must believe in yourself. If not, you can’t do it.

Thank God for all He has done for you

According to Mary Manin Morrissey, “Thank you, God. I may not have reached my dream, but I am grateful for that which I do possess.” Yes, to get more in life, you must first appreciate what you have. You must focus on what God has given to you, not what you do not have. When you appreciate what you have, you will have more to be grateful for.

Act happy, feel happy, be happy…”

“Act happy, feel happy, be happy, without a reason in the world. Then you can love, and do what you will.”- Dan Millman

Remember that the essence of life is to be happy. And it is your responsibility to make yourself happy. No matter what is going on in your life, do not forget to make yourself happy.

Be there for yourself

Dr Phil says, “You’re only lonely if you’re not there for you.” People are lonely because they are not there for themselves. Do not do that to yourself. Do not let the fear of other people’s opinions stop you from being there for yourself. Because if you do not have the courage to be there for yourself, no one is going to be there for you.

Surround yourself with great people

To forgive yourself, you must surround yourself with great people. Who are they? Why are they different? They are for you, not against you. They are for your dreams, not against your dreams. When you are with great people, you can do what you will. According to Og Mandino, ” Do not listen to those who weep and complain, for their disease is contagious.” So let me ask you. Who are the people around you?

“Never compare yourself or your achievements with others.”

Focus on what you are doing. Others are doing their own things. Don’t worry about what others are getting, what others are doing, or where they are going. That is not your business. What you are doing is your business, is your responsibility, not what others are doing. Focus on yourself. If you want to compete, compete with yourself. It is simple, but hard to do. When it comes to living your life, do what Norman Vincent Peale said. Norman Vincent Peale said, “Never compare yourself or your achievements with others.” If you have the courage to compete with yourself, you will have the courage to live a great life. Because it takes courage to live a great life.

You Are Not Going To Be Successful If You Do Not Understand Your Soul

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Plato once said, “Are you not ashamed that you give your attention to acquiring as much money as possible, and similarly with reputation and honor, and give no attention or thought to truth and understanding and the perfection of your soul.” We do not do that. We want other people to do it for us.

When we fail, we blame others. We do not take responsibility for our own lives. Look, whether you know it or not, whether you want to accept it or not, if you want things to get better for you, you have got to stop blaming other people for your own problem, for your own mistake, for your own failure. They are not responsible for your failure. You are responsible for where you are in your life.

“If you want to be successful in your life, you must take 100% responsibility for your life.”

So if you want things to change, you have got to change your mindset; you have got to start doing something new; you have got to start taking responsibility for your life. You are where you are because you never take responsibility for your life. You are where you are because you never work on yourself. You are where you are because you didn’t do what you were supposed to do to change your life. Instead, you were busy pleasing the people around you. You were busy living other people’s lives. You never take ownership of your own life.

“If your soul is not happy with you, you are not going to be happy with yourself.”

Look, if you cannot own your life, then why is it your life? Do not fear yourself. Do not fear your future. If you prepare for tomorrow, you will enjoy tomorrow. But if you ignore tomorrow, tomorrow will ignore you. You can change your life. You can change the direction of your life. To do that, you must understand your soul. It is important.

Remember, If your soul is not happy with you, you are not going to be happy with yourself. You are not going to be able to make peace with yourself if you are not willing to listen to your soul. When your soul is okay, you are okay. Just listen to your soul. Because you are not going to be successful if your soul is not happy with your goal. Focus on your soul. Understand it. And you will find success in your life.