Tag: Growth

How To Do What You Are Afraid To Do

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“He who has overcome his fears will truly be free.”- Aristotle

Fear is part of life. To live your life, to do what you are afraid to, to get out of your comfort zone, you must take action. To do what you want to do with yourself, you must use love to conquer fear. Only love can conquer fear. Use love to remove fear from your life. There is nothing that love cannot create. With love in your heart, you can do anything. Before you start anything, my friends, think love. Think love thoughts. Remove fear thoughts from your mind. When you think fear thoughts, you attract more fear thoughts into your life. When you think love thoughts, you attract love into your life. When you fear something, do not run away from it. Try to understand it. When you understand it, you won’t fear it. We fear what we don’t understand. We don’t fear what we know. That is why so many people hate change. Because change is vulnerable. It brings chaos. It destroys routine. It takes people out of their comfort zones. But you can live your life with love. Live love. Breathe love. Carry love in your heart. Don’t fear what you don’t know. Instead, learn more about it. There is power in learning. Always learn something new. Learning cures fear. Whatever you want in your life, you can get. Do not let fear be the obstacle to your success. Remove it with action. Action cures fear. Action builds confidence. Action brings freedom. Remember, only love can set you free. So if you want to free, carry love in your heart. With love, with action, you can overcome your fears. With love, with compassion, you can overcome your fears.

Why You Fear Failure

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No one likes to fail. You are not alone. But failure is part of life. Whether you like it or not, you are going to fail. It is going to get worse before it gets better. There is no overnight success. You are not going to master your work overnight. If you want to grow, if you want to conquer your fears, don’t rush the process. Because it takes time to learn something. Don’t expect things to turn out right the first time. It is not going to happen. If you expect it to work out for you the first time, believe me, that is a losing strategy. It won’t work. Just give yourself time to do your thing. Things are not always going to work out perfectly the first time. Instead of beating yourself up for not completing your work, why not give yourself credit for even trying it. Respect failure. Respect the process. Because everything takes time to do, especially when you are doing it for the first time. If you want to change your life, from now on, you must change your meaning of failure. Failure is not failure. It is a way forward. Because you cannot grow without failure. That is what separates the successful ones from the rest of us. They are not afraid of failure. You shouldn’t be afraid of failure. Do not fear it. Use failure to move yourself forward in your life. When you fail, live it. When you fail, ask for help. Do not be scared to ask for help. Celebrate it when you get it. Help is healthy. It is life. When you make mistakes, fix them. Own them. Do not blame anyone for your mistakes. Instead of blaming other people for your own error, celebrate yourself for knowing what you don’t know.